Episode 171: What Happens After You Leave Your Abusive Marriage? with Leanne Oaten

Leanne Oaten is back on the podcast! Listeners loved her previous episode so much that I invited her back to talk about what happens after you get out of an abusive relationship. We discuss the post-separation aftermath, which many women are not prepared for. Once all the dust settles and the reality sets in, questions and emotions bubble to the surface. We explore all the complexities of what happens when you re-awaken to life after domestic abuse.

Leanne is a former counselor who helps women decide whether to stay or leave their toxic, abusive, narcissistic relationship without wasting time going to therapy.

Show Highlights

• Why women begin to question the abuse that transpired after they get out (4:11)
• Using apps is a good solution for co-parenting with an abusive ex (9:57)
• The emotional aspect of what lies on the other side once you've separated (14:10)
• How to prepare for the what happens to you emotionally and physically after leaving an abuser (19:19)
• Setting boundaries and understanding where to draw the line - also realize you aren't going to do it perfectly (24:44)
• You can be friendly with a co-parent but you don't have to be friends (28:37)

Learn more about Leanne Oaten

Leanne Oaten is a former counselor with over 9 years of experience coaching and supporting clients. After working in the counseling field in private practice for several years, she decided to go virtual with her business to serve women all over the world. She educates and guides women who are experiencing narcissistic abuse to end the cycle and get clarity on whether to stay or leave.

Leanne Oaten founded Awakening Women Support in 2018 to begin sharing her unique and no bullsh*t perspectives on the patterns of narcissistic abuse and posts daily over on Instagram at instagram.com/awakeningwomensupport.

Resources & Links:

Information and links can also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/what-happens-after-you-leave-your-abusive-marriage-with-leanne-oaten/

Submit your questions for a future Q&A episode!
Leanne's website
How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship
Lundy Bancroft episode
Peaceful Parent App

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