The Feminist Dating Show19 Heinä 2022

117. A conversation with my coach all about sexual agency with Dr. Juliana Hauser

We are getting vulnerable on the podcast this week. Dr. Juliana Hauser returns to the show to talk more about sexual agency. After Dr. Juliana's last podcast appearance, Lily participated in Revealed, Juliana's program about sexual agency in a community setting. This episode is an opportunity to be in the room while Lily talks to her coach about what it was like to dive deep into the experience of sexual agency, what it is, and how it can affect your life.

"When you get to reclaim who you are, excavating your story and understanding it on your own terms, then you really gain a different level of confidence in knowing who you are; so that you can make decisions with purpose, intention, and agency moving forward." Dr. Juliana Hauser

Hot-takes from this episode:

Dr. Juliana and Lily share their experiences about being a part of each other's work (4:31)
Excavating your stories and how doing so encourages owning your sexual agency (9:55)
The first place to be in discomfort is with curiosity (14:15)
Lily shares the most powerful lessons learned from her time in Revealed (16:49)
All of the fears that came up for Lily when doing work toward sexual agency (23:31)
What is the value of knowing your sexuality and understanding your sexual story? (26:13)
Agency is the headliner of the essence of who we are (29:17)

Links and resources:

Show notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/a-conversation-about-sexual-agency/

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