274 - Codependency and Autonomy in Healthy Relationships with Bret and Chalene Johnson CarSmart Edition

274 - Codependency and Autonomy in Healthy Relationships with Bret and Chalene Johnson CarSmart Edition

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"I think you two are co-dependent" once said a wise therapist. Bret and I stared back at her in disbelief and denial.

This episode of the Chalene Show includes an unscripted and honest conversation between my husband Bret and I, recapping a recent weekend apart. This is significant because not too many years ago, I wouldn't have dreamed of suggesting we spend the weekend apart. Today, we are in a better place, our relationship is so much healthier.

Healthy relationships take work! I always feel a little weird when I post something in social media and see that well meaning fans have replied with comments like, #RelationshipGoals or "I wish my relationship was like yours".

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to know that people see the relationship that I have with my husband and business partner Bret as inspirational, but I also feel a sense of obligation.

I feel a sense of responsibility to share the true work and progress that has gone into this relationship. While it's helpful to have relationship role models, it's unhealthy to use someone else relationship as a measure of the success or potential that your relationship has.

If you're not getting along, if you struggle to communicate, argue, or just feel disconnected that doesn't mean your relationship is doomed, it might simply mean you need to seek outside help.

In this episode, Bret and I talk about how early behaviors in our relationship resulted in some pretty serious codependency patterns.

Codependency can take on many forms. When the term was first used to describe our relationship, I was very defensive. I took to the internet to read up on what it meant to be in an unhealthy relationship. It was easy to find definitions that didn't seem to fit. But there are degrees of codependency and before long I realized that being defensive about the label, wasn't going to help us.

Growth is something we should all seek. Growth makes us better. When we are better as individuals or better as a couple, we make the world a better place. We experience greater happiness and fulfillment when we work on being better humans. And yes, growth can be uncomfortable, even painful at times, but it always results in improvement.

Embrace growth. Growth is what courageous people do. Don't be afraid to ask for help. You can't possibly be an expert at everything. Allow a trained individual to help you navigate this process. While friends and family are important sources of support, they are not trained to help you navigate the experiences of your past and help you to process these things.

You and your partner need time together and time apart. You need to be your own autonomous person with your own interests, friends and pursuits. While It's incredibly beneficial to share these things as a couple, it's equally important to have things that are just for you. Your happiness and or emotional state should never be defined or determined by the mood, actions, affection or behaviors of your partner.

A healthy individual doesn't need the approval, assistance, support or love of someone else to feel whole. While it's human nature to desire these things, they should never define you or make you feel differently about who you are or your significance.

Codependence can take on many forms and can reveal itself in varying degrees, the worst of which can lead to dangerous and destructive patterns.

Instead of dismissing the notion, consider speaking to a trained professional and seek the counsel of those trained to help you be a better you!!

Thanks for listening! I love you!

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The Billion Dollar Burn Out of Beachbody (Bodi) Part 1 - Special Patreon Episode - 1153

The Billion Dollar Burn Out of Beachbody (Bodi) Part 1 - Special Patreon Episode - 1153

Chalene Johnson dives into the early days of her partnership with Beachbody (Bodi), when the company was just a small infomercial operation and the creative energy was off the charts. She shares behind-the-scenes stories from her TurboJam journey, the culture they built at Powder Blue Productions, and how Chalene's relationships with Beachbody's leadership began to evolve as the company shifted toward a more corporate approach. In part one of this story, She is setting the stage for how it all started to change, and why Chalene felt like it was time to step back from the fitness industry. Want to listen to the entire Beachbody series?! Join The Vault Level for 7 Days FREE 👉 http://chalene.com/more Buy the Beachbody Series without a membership 👉https://www.patreon.com/collection/809556?view=expanded PRO TIP!!! To Avoid the Apple Fee Join or Purchase On Desktop Website My favorite brand of Castor Oil is Queen Of The Thrones go to https://chalene.com/oil OR use code CHALENE at Checkout for 10% off 🎯You're Too Young To Feel Old! Join the all-new Phase It!! A Personalized Plan to Fit Your Life 👉Go to https://phaseitup.com We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Chalene RIGHT HERE To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign Up For MY WEEKLY NEWSLETTER Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: @chaleneOfficial Twitter: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

25 Joulu 20241h 9min

Anxiety, Depression and The Role of Hormones with Dr. Daniel Amen - 1152

Anxiety, Depression and The Role of Hormones with Dr. Daniel Amen - 1152

Feeling foggy, anxious, or low-energy? Discover how your hormones, brain health, and daily habits might be holding you back. Chalene sits down with Dr. Daniel Amen, renowned psychiatrist and brain health expert, to discuss the profound connection between hormones, mental clarity, and overall well-being. Together, they explore how changes in hormones like estrogen and progesterone can impact mood, sleep, and cognitive health. Dr. Amen provides actionable tips for optimizing brain function, explains the critical importance of regular lab tests, and shares groundbreaking insights on trauma's impact on longevity. Plus, Chalene opens up about her personal journey with brain scans and the lifestyle changes that transformed her health. What You'll Learn: The surprising effects of hormone decline on mental health and cognition. Why bioidentical hormones can play a key role in preventing conditions like Alzheimer's. The connection between trauma and longevity, and how EMDR can help. Practical steps to optimize brain health through lifestyle and supplementation. How brain scans can provide clarity and drive life-changing health decisions. Thank you to MIDI!! 💜You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today 👉 http://chalene.com/MIDI 🎯Resources & Discounts: 👉 Try Blissy risk-free for 60 nights at https://blissy.com/CHALENE. Use code CHALENE to get an additional 30% off! Your skin and hair will thank you! Get your special discount for Sleep Breakthrough 👉 Go to https://chalene.com/sleep and use code CHALENE at checkout 👉 Creatine: https://Chalene.com/creatine 👉 All Dr Amen's Supplements & Products: https://Chalene.com/brainMD 👉 Schedule a Scan at Amen Clinics: https://chalene.com/scan 👉 Dr. Amen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen 👉 Dr. Amen's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@docamen 👉 Scan My Brain series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiIuqLgApDlZlGwdHS2SIbPLlcwAtk1zL 👉Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg: https://amzn.to/4gHB7DZ 👉 Born to Walk by Mark Sisson: https://amzn.to/3ZZUwL4 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson PLEASE NOTE: The contents of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician.

20 Joulu 202456min

My Facelift Consultation, Setting Boundaries with Family, and Alzheimer's Updates - 1151

My Facelift Consultation, Setting Boundaries with Family, and Alzheimer's Updates - 1151

👉 Sign up to be the first to get updates on Camp Be More: https://campbemore.com/ 👉 Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter How do you set boundaries with family and prepare for aging parents, all while navigating the complexities of personal wellness? In this heartfelt episode, Chalene opens up about her recent facelift consultation with a beauty broker and shares insights on finding the right plastic surgeon. She dives deep into her family's journey with Alzheimer's, including updates on her father-in-law's condition and the emotional toll caregiving takes. Chalene also reflects on setting boundaries with family members, handling guilt, and managing expectations, offering practical advice for listeners in similar situations. What You'll Learn: 🌟 The importance of proper research when choosing a plastic surgeon. 🧠 Insights on Alzheimer's caregiving and its impact on family dynamics. ❤️ How to set healthy boundaries with family and avoid guilt-driven decisions. 💬 The value of open communication and planning for aging parents' care. ✨ Chalene's thoughts on personal wellness, including maintaining brain health and vitality. Thank you to our sponsor Organifi. 👉Go to https://www.Organifi.com/chalene and use the code CHALENE for 20% off all products! 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: New customers get 15% off ALL Lume products and 40% off their Starter Pack too! 👉Use code CHALENE at https://LumeDeodorant.com 👉Save 20% off plus get FREE shipping on the Mosh Best Sellers Trial Pack or the new Plant Based Trial Pack 👉http://moshlife.com/CHALENE Doing Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out: https://amzn.to/3BCP33f Beauty Broker: https://www.thebeautybrokers.com/ 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

18 Joulu 20241h 6min

Top Longevity Expert Shares With Me #1 Cardio MISTAKE For Fat Loss w/ Mark Sisson - 1150

Top Longevity Expert Shares With Me #1 Cardio MISTAKE For Fat Loss w/ Mark Sisson - 1150

Are you making the #1 cardio mistake that's holding you back from fat loss? In this eye-opening episode, Chalene is joined by Mark Sisson, the New York Times bestselling author of The Keto Reset Diet, The Primal Blueprint, and the new book Born to Walk. Together, they explore why running might not be the answer to your fitness goals and how walking can be a game-changer. They also discuss the science behind metabolic flexibility, the benefits of minimalist footwear, and how to optimize your workout routines for fat loss, longevity, and overall health. 🎯Exclusive offer: visit https://bioptimizers.com/chalene and enter code CHALENE to get 10% off any order! What You'll Learn: Why running might be sabotaging your fat loss goals. The science of metabolic flexibility and its role in health and fitness. How minimalist footwear can improve foot health and enhance performance. The benefits of walking over running for fat loss and overall well-being. Practical tips for creating a sustainable and effective workout routine. 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: 👉 Go to https://chalene.com/sleep and use code CHALENE at checkout My favorite brand of castor oil is Queen Of The Thrones. 👉 Visit http://chalene.com/oil or use code CHALENE at checkout for 10% off Pre-order Mark's New Book Born to Walk: 👉 https://amzn.to/3OSOfdB Learn More About Mark: 👉 https://www.primalkitchen.com/pages/marks-daily-apple Follow Mark on Instagram: 👉 https://www.instagram.com/marksissonprimal/ Peluva Shoe Company 👉Go to https://peluva.com/CHALENE and use code "CHALENE" to get 10% off your entire order 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

13 Joulu 20241h 7min

Jay Z Allegations, Camp Be More, Future Plans For Plastic Surgery, Thoughts On MLM's And Marketing Faith - 1149

Jay Z Allegations, Camp Be More, Future Plans For Plastic Surgery, Thoughts On MLM's And Marketing Faith - 1149

👉 Sign up to be the first to get updates on Camp Be More: https://campbemore.com/ 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more Ready to dive into hard-hitting truths, inspiring tips, and a whole lot of laughs? This episode covers it all! Chalene discusses the recent controversies surrounding Jay-Z and P. Diddy, providing her unique perspective on these developments. She introduces the concepts of "soft maxing" and "hard maxing" — from affordable, non-invasive methods to cutting-edge, costly procedures for enhancing appearance and energy at any age. Chalene also shares updates on her hormone replacement therapy, strength training gains, and her plans for future cosmetic enhancements, with a commitment to maintaining authenticity. She also candidly addresses the challenges faced by former network marketers and explores the ethical implications of using Christianity as a business strategy. What You'll Learn: 🛠️ The differences between "soft maxing" and "hard maxing" in appearance and energy enhancement. 🏋️‍♀️ Chalene's recent strength training milestones and their connection to health and longevity. 💊 Updates on hormone replacement therapy and its impact on health and energy. ✂️ Honest insights into Chalene's considerations for cosmetic procedures. 🛍️ Reflections on network marketing and lessons for career transitions. ✝️ A discussion on the ethics of leveraging faith in business strategies. Natalie Jills upper blepharoplasty (eyelid surgery) Journey https://www.instagram.com/s/aGlnaGxpZ2h0OjE3OTU2NjQ5NzUzODMzMzY1?story_media_id=3484751751520214409&igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: 👉Go to https://www.greenchef.com/chalene50 and use code "chalene50" to get 50% off, plus 20% off your next two months. Thank you to our sponsor Organifi. 👉Go to https://www.Organifi.com/chalene and use the code CHALENE for 20% off all products! Thank you to MIDI!! 💜You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today 👉http://chalene.com/MIDI 👉 Get the Holiday Gift Guide: http://chalene.com/newsletter 👉 Go to https://peluva.com/CHALENE and use code "CHALENE" to get 10% off your entire order 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

11 Joulu 20241h 4min

The Most Important Mineral All Women Over 40 NEED - 1148

The Most Important Mineral All Women Over 40 NEED - 1148

Could magnesium be the missing link to better health? In this episode, Chalene dives deep into the incredible benefits of magnesium—the most underrated mineral in your body. Learn how magnesium impacts everything from sleep quality and bone density to mental health and hormone regulation. Chalene shares her personal experiences, expert insights, and the latest research on why most of us are magnesium deficient and how to choose the right supplements to optimize your health. What You'll Learn: 🌟 Why magnesium is critical for over 300 body processes, including energy production and mood regulation. 💡 How magnesium deficiency can contribute to anxiety, depression, and poor sleep. 🩺 The link between magnesium, bone density, and hormone balance, especially for women. 🍊 Why food alone may not provide enough magnesium and how farming practices have depleted soil nutrients. 🧪 How to identify the best magnesium supplements and find your optimal dosage. 🔄 The importance of tracking magnesium's effects on sleep, stress, and overall well-being. Get an exclusive offer from Bioptimizers: 👉Go to https://bioptimizers.com/chalene and enter code CHALENE to get 10% off any order! 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: Thank you to our sponsor Organifi. 👉Go to https://www.Organifi.com/chalene and use the code CHALENE for 20% off all products! My favorite brand of castor oil is Queen Of The Thrones. 👉Visit http://chalene.com/oil or use code CHALENE at checkout for 10% off "The New Menopause" by Dr. Mary Claire Haver: https://amzn.to/4a3Y1Sm PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! I would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Chalene: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

6 Joulu 202429min

My Daily Routine: Every Move, Every Minute, Every Hour - 1147

My Daily Routine: Every Move, Every Minute, Every Hour - 1147

Curious about developing new ways to create a balanced, joyful, and productive life—no matter the season? In this episode, Chalene Johnson takes a reflective and candid look at her daily routine, sharing how it has evolved over the years and what habits she's working to refine. Chalene provides an honest glimpse into the decisions that keep her focused, creative, and connected. With insights into her health practices, work habits, and personal growth goals, this episode offers inspiration for anyone seeking to align their daily life with their long-term aspirations. What You'll Learn: 🧠 The importance of flexibility and giving yourself grace in scheduling. 💪 Practical tips for balancing health, productivity, and creativity. 🛠️ Why embracing your passions and prioritizing joy is key to fulfillment. 🔑 Strategies for leveraging tools like walking desks, playlists, and habit stacking. 🧬 Chalene's insights on health practices like hyperbaric oxygen therapy and supplement routines. 🔄 Lessons in adapting to personal and professional growth without guilt. Thank you to MIDI!! 💜You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today 👉http://chalene.com/MIDI 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: New customers get 15% off ALL Lume products and 40% off their Starter Pack too! 👉Use code CHALENE at https://LumeDeodorant.com Get an exclusive offer from Biooptimizers: 👉Go to https://bioptimizers.com/chalene and enter code CHALENE to get 10% off any order! UREVO Under Desk Treadmill: https://amzn.to/3B8DgJV Sweet Furniture electric desk: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8N1Px6a/ Spotify playlists: https://open.spotify.com/user/chaleneprivate Vitality Health & Wellness - Miami Beach Florida: https://www.vitalitywellness.com Brain Boost On-The-Go: https://amzn.to/3OBzyeX Organifi: http://Organifi.com/chalene (use the code CHALENE for 20% off all products!) 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

4 Joulu 20241h 3min

GLP-1s Ozempic And Muscle Loss | What They Don't Tell You! With Sal Di Stefano - 1146

GLP-1s Ozempic And Muscle Loss | What They Don't Tell You! With Sal Di Stefano - 1146

Can weight loss meds help or hurt your health?" 🚨 Chalene Johnson and Sal Di Stefano uncover the truth about GLP-1s—are they the ultimate game-changer or a risky shortcut? This episode covers the science, myths, and practical strategies for using GLP-1 medications safely while maintaining muscle and boosting overall health. Whether you're considering GLP-1s or just curious about their effects, this episode provides a nuanced perspective on this culture-shifting intervention. Watch This episode on YouTube this Sunday! What You'll Learn: 🌟 The science behind GLP-1 medications and how they work. 💪 Why strength training and high-protein diets are crucial when using GLP-1s. 🔄 The risks of muscle loss and how to avoid metabolic adaptation. 🧪 Insights on microdosing GLP-1s for inflammation and autoimmune issues. 🧠 How GLP-1s affect behavior, cravings, and addiction tendencies. 📉 Why calorie reduction alone isn't the answer and how to reverse diet for long-term success. 🏋️ Tips for maintaining muscle while losing fat with GLP-1s. 🎯 Thank you to MIDI!! 💜You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today at http://chalene.com/MIDI 🎯Learn More About Sal Podcast: MindPump Website: mindpumpmedia.com Social Media: Instagram @mindpumpmedia @mindpumpdistefano 🎯Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes of The Chalene Show PLUS all of the other FUN content not suited for the regular show!! 👉 http://chalene.com/more 🎯You're too young to feel old! Join the all-new Phase It - a personalized plan to fit your life 👉 https://phaseitup.com 🎯Resources & Discounts: My favorite brand of Castor Oil is Queen Of The Thrones go to http://chalene.com/oil OR use code CHALENE at Checkout for 10% off Save up to 60% Off Sitewide at https://honeylove.com/CHALENE until December 4th only 📣 I'd Love to Hear From You! Leave your questions or messages for me here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskChalene To advertise on the podcast, please reach out to thechaleneshow@gmail.com and mention The Chalene Show Sign up for my weekly newsletter: http://chalene.com/newsletter Connect with me on your fav social platform: Instagram: www.Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Facebook: www.Facebook.com/Chalene TikTok: www.Tiktok.com/@chaleneofficial Twitter/X: www.Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson

29 Marras 202439min

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