Do this and you can beat your SA don't do it and suffer forever

Do this and you can beat your SA don't do it and suffer forever

The most important thing to understand to beat your social anxiety is what we discuss today: "overcoming subconscious resistance".

When you don't overcome this resistance, you cannot become anxiety-free. Ever.

Lindsay Kenny, one of the only 29 EFT Founding Masters, a Life Coach, and EFT AAMET Trainer of Trainers is the expert on subconscious resistance and shares her wisdom on the podcast.

She says "If you haven't been able to overcome your problem you have a subconscious resistance to change."

Consciously you want to change, but your subconscious (which is much bigger than your conscious mind) says: "We're not changing because if I go out into a social situation, I'm gonna get hurt, remember what happened last time?!"

She also guides you through an exercise to overcome this subconscious resistance easily and quickly. This is a MUST-listen.

QUOTE: Conventional psychology says "let's desensitise you from that fear by forcing you to face it, little steps at a time where you grid your teeth and bite your finger nails, have your heart pounding and your knuckles white, and you're just miserable doing it… And all the time your subconscious is yelling NO don't make me do this!! Sometimes this (forcefully facing your fears) does work, but it's so hard to do this. The simple thing is to just neutralise the subconscious resistance to changing.

Lindsay's show notes page

My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Contact me directly:
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier

_________________________________________________________________

Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You're not alone.
I've been there. It sucks. Big time.
But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:
1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course.

3.) Let's connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
• FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
• IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
• Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards,
Seb

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"I've had a glimpse of what life will be at the end of this #JourneyToSocialEase" [Testimonial]

"I've had a glimpse of what life will be at the end of this #JourneyToSocialEase" [Testimonial]

For people who suffer from social anxiety, one of the things that they dread is socializing with other people. They often just hide at the back of the room, or they will just leave as soon as the uncomfortable feelings start to emerge. And doing inner work will help you to release and neutralize all feelings of shame, embarrassment, judgment, etc. Don't believe how powerful tapping is yet? Then listen to this episode. In this episode, Anna will share how doing inner work tap-along with Seb helped her be out of the circle slowly but with confidence. She had a glimpse of what life will be like after social anxiety. She now has time to socialize with other people, and feels completely happy about the outcome! Want to have your progress too? PS: Anna is a member of the Social Confidence Club, which is currently closed at the moment. In the meantime, if you want to start chipping away the layers of your social anxiety, you can get my FREE Social Confidence Starter Kit. You can get that by going to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

13 Syys 20223min

Your social anxiety is NOT your fault

Your social anxiety is NOT your fault

Have you ever looked at your life, compared it to "normal" people, and felt upset about it? Ever blamed and shamed yourself for being weird? Ever worried others would find out about your SA, about how far behind you are, or how weird you are? Well, this needs to STOP. Because it's damaging your self-esteem and it's worsening your anxiety. In this episode, Sebastiaan will guide you through a tap-along session that can help you reduce the shame and blame game on yourself. He will also lead you to a strategy that can help you neutralize the issues that can help you become socially at ease. Want to watch more tap-along videos just like this one? Go to this link -- https://youtu.be/kQf8TgE_-9Y Enjoy! Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

8 Syys 202219min

How tapping reduced my feelings of shame and embarrassment [Testimonial]

How tapping reduced my feelings of shame and embarrassment [Testimonial]

There comes a time when we have to leave our comfort zone. The changes in our environment can lead us to fantasies that people aren't the same. Your friends. Your house. The environment that you used to lived in. Everything changed. And that can give us feelings of fear, shame, and embarrassment from the uncertainty that we will encounter. In this episode, Anonymous shares how changing and moving from one country to another made him stay quiet because of fear and embarrassment. And how tapping along with Seb and Lea helped him neutralize the fear from 7 to a 2. Do you also want to neutralize your shame and fear of embarrassment just by tapping along? Then go to https://bit.ly/fearofembarrassment __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

6 Syys 20221min

How to overcome social anxiety - John's testimonial

How to overcome social anxiety - John's testimonial

No More Social Anxiety! A few months ago, John reached out to me. His Dad had recently died and he did his father's memorial service and spoke in front of 1200 people. Feeling totally at ease. He had suffered from severe social anxiety for over 2 decades. And overcame it during our 2-3 months of coaching together. Now, a few years later, this was a profound time in his life. He said he felt called to inform me about his amazing changes. When I replied and asked to interview him, he happily agreed. I think you're going to really love this interview. John shares his incredible changes. His social anxiety started in his early teens. And it progressively got worse. He says, "It got to the point where even around my closest friends, I'd be screaming inside from discomfort. Sometimes I'd sweat too much my shirt is drenched, my face was drained... I dealt with shame, blushing, eye twitching, any symptom imaginable." John saw psychiatrists, was on medication, did a famous CBT program for people with SA. Nothing helped. He shares how he experienced our sessions together. He also explains the profound change he made after a session where we used PSYCH-K; a different energy psychology modality I use when coaching clients. He describes his current social experience as 'content'. He's made such profound changes that he's now in training to become a counselor himself. How amazing! Go check out my super inspiring interview with John in this podcast. If you are serious about overcoming your social anxiety... ... I've got 2-3 more spots left for a 3 month intensive private 1-on-1 coaching. If you're interested, send an email to socialanxietysolutionsva@gmail.com so we can send you the details. Limited spots available. First come, first serve. Go here for the show notes page. _____________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

1 Syys 20221h 6min

"I tapped on my fears and feelings of unworthiness...and I nailed my interview!" [Testimonial]

"I tapped on my fears and feelings of unworthiness...and I nailed my interview!" [Testimonial]

The journey to social confidence is not a straight pathway... ...it consists of ups and downs throughout the way. And while it takes a lot of steps to be there... ...your persistence, determination, and motivation will help you overcome your social anxiety problems. In this episode, hear Ariel's #win on how she tapped on her fears and feelings of unworthiness...and now stands on the road to conquering and chasing her dreams. PS: Ariel is a member of the Social Confidence Club, which is currently closed at the moment. If you want to be a member, you can pre-register and be notified once the club re-opens by going to https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub. In the meantime, if you want to chip away the layers of your social anxiety just by tapping, you can get my FREE SOCIAL CONFIDENCE STARTER KIT by going to https://www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/bonus/ __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

30 Elo 20222min

SOCIAL ANXIETY - you are not alone!

SOCIAL ANXIETY - you are not alone!

Do you feel alone in your battle with #socialanxiety? Do you feel a huge #shame knowing that people might know about your secret of having social anxiety? Do you feel #limited and #incapacitated? You ARE NOT alone. In this episode, I will emphasize studies that show how much of the worlds' total population suffers from social anxiety. And as this is a fast-growing #phenomenon that affects many people, know that resources available to help you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS JOURNEY. If you feel and know you are suffering from social anxiety, stop looking for 'how-to-face-your-fears-solutions'... ...instead, start learning the power of EFT that can help and guide you to chip away layers of your social anxiety problems. Go to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Go here to see the research mentioned in today's episode. Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

26 Elo 202211min

Do other people MAKE YOU ANXIOUS?

Do other people MAKE YOU ANXIOUS?

Is there someone in your life that makes you feel anxious? Someone who, when you are with him or her, makes you feel uncomfortable? In this video, you will learn what is it about that person that makes you feel that way. You will also get tips on how to feel comfortable around this person. Check out this story of transformation from a previous coaching client who used to feel anxious with certain people. Be inspired that you too can completely overcome your social anxiety. Listen to his story here. Go here for the show notes page. ____________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

20 Elo 202214min

"Thanks to tapping and SCC, I was able to speak in a meeting without getting anxious" [Testimonial]

"Thanks to tapping and SCC, I was able to speak in a meeting without getting anxious" [Testimonial]

How much progress do you need for you to say that you really are making progress? And how do you want to celebrate your win? In this episode, hear Jason as he shares the noticeable changes he made just after a solid commitment to tapping and being a member of the Social Confidence Club. Remember: it's not about how much progress you are making, it's about how you notice the shifts. PS: Jason is a member of the Social Confidence Club, which is currently closed as of the moment. If you also want to be notified when the club re-opens, you can pre-register by going to https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

16 Elo 20224min

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