We Choose Our Responses & They Define Our Lived Experience w/ Yale Director of Emotional Intelligence Marc Brackett

We Choose Our Responses & They Define Our Lived Experience w/ Yale Director of Emotional Intelligence Marc Brackett

“Forces beyond your control can take away everything you possess except one thing, your freedom to choose how you will respond to the situation.” This is the quote by Holocaust survivor Viktor E Frankl that headlines a new book titled, Dealing With Feeling: Use Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want. The book comes from my guest in this episode, Marc Brackett. Mark is the founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and a professor in the Child Study Center, Yale School of Medicine at Yale University. Marcs research for over 25 years has focused on the role of emotions and emotional intelligence in learning, decision making, creativity, relationships, health, and performance. The quote from Viktor Frankl that came from his time in a concentration camp, and that Marc has devoted his life to, is saying that no matter what happens to us, we get to choose how we respond. And my experience of humanity is that no matter what happens to them, even great traumas, tragedies, and victimizations, what harms them more than the incident or event is how they conceive of it and how they respond. My concern is that culturally we have come into a place where we don’t believe this. We feel it is our right and it’s just, to respond to pain, with pain. And to say otherwise is actually offensive. Looking at the mental health stats these days, I don’t think this perspective is working. This is the conversation you’re about to hear with Marc Brackett. Marc previously authored the bestselling book, Permission To Feel and most recently, along with Pinterest co-founder Ben Silbermann, Marc and his team co-created the Apple award-winning app, HowWeFeel, that was designed to teach emotion skills and enhance well-being. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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329: Are you buying what you are selling?

329: Are you buying what you are selling?

This is directly aimed at your work. What you spend Mon-Fri doing. There is a very high chance you are violating, or at the least not harnessing, a core principle for work and life success. Zig lays it out like he’s so masterful at doing, so it cuts you off at the knees…the builds you back stronger and taller than ever. Here’s to you.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 Heinä 201534min

328: How much money are you working to accumulate?

328: How much money are you working to accumulate?

Dan Miller of 48 Days To The Work You Love fame leads us as we challenge the conscious and subconscious perspectives most of us have in regards to accumulating money, millionaires, self-employment, sales professionals, the value of formal education and “natural born brain surgeons”. This episode is cocked, loaded and will inspire and challenge you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Heinä 201544min

327: Mumbo Jumbo Motivational Stuff

327: Mumbo Jumbo Motivational Stuff

Jordan Harbinger, host of the top ranked, “The Art of Charm” podcast, tell us his Zig story. He was critical of the concept, "You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want." But he tested it, and it changed his life. Today he devote himself to leading and inspiring others to…more. In business, relationships and life. If you value The Ziglar Show, check out www.TheArtOfCharmPodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Heinä 201556min

326: Break down to build up

326: Break down to build up

A powerful 10-minute message from Zig, from which we get this statement, "When you don’t have focus, you put energy into not losing what you have, and you don’t gain much. When you have focus you put energy into gain, and you can’t lose!” Then we share an intimate confession from Tom Ziglar on what really made his Dad the icon he grew to be. It's not what you'll expect to hear, at all. Our show was brought to you by next week's special guest, Jordan Harbinger of the famed ArtOfCharmPodcast.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Heinä 201545min

325: What’s in the way of your hope?

325: What’s in the way of your hope?

We posed this question to our 3.5 million Ziglar Facebook Fanpage audience, and got a wealth of responses. I (Kevin) picked groups of similar replies and posed them to Tom Ziglar and Dan Miller. What came out was one of the deeper shows to date. No doubt, you’ll find a response you can relate to. I also gave a charge to one unreasonable person…to mentor them through an upcoming Ziglar Legacy Certification course. Listen in…and change your life.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Heinä 201540min

324: Knowing when to stick it out  or move on elsewhere

324: Knowing when to stick it out or move on elsewhere

When you are in a negative environment, when do you know to stick it out, endure, tolerate and remain…and when should you get out of there?! There is no cookie cutter answer. But in this show we had Bob Beaudine in the office to get to the nitty gritty on this issue. Bob is a renowned Ziglar champion, and the man who Sports Illustrated called, “the top front-office matchmaker in sports”. We listen to a 3-minute clip from Bob, then break it down. He starts off saying, “Life isn’t often fair.” From that, we discussed 3 points, 1) When you get rejected and put down and minimized, you may be on the wrong team, in the wrong crowd, at the wrong company, 2) Rejection can be a reminder of who you are and who you are not, 3) Go where you’re celebrated, not where you’re tolerated. You’ll be inspired, and get a paradigm shift. This show was brought to you by Harry’s Razors - Harrys.com - get a $5 discount by entering ZIGLAR into the coupons code. And Igloo intranet software, get a free trial at igloosoftware.com/ziglar Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Kesä 201542min

323: Your future, your success - equals the size of your hope. You must have more.

323: Your future, your success - equals the size of your hope. You must have more.

John Johnson said, “It’s the size of your hope that’s going to determine how far you’ll go in your life.” John Maxwell said, “If there’s hope in the future there’s power in the present.” The focus of this show is, You Need More Hope. You need to increase it and enhance it and establish it. I, your host Kevin Miller, took more notes on this 13-minute clip from Zig than any show so far. Thus the longer show where Tom Ziglar and I cover some significant ground. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Kesä 201554min

322: Stop selling and start helping

322: Stop selling and start helping

If you think sales is not a topic that interests you or pertains to you…you haven’t listened to much of Zig. We all sell everyday, and true selling is serving. You’ve got to understand what people need and want, then give people areason and an excuse for buying.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Kesä 201542min

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