152. How To Tell If They're Emotionally Unavailable (And Signs You Are Too)

152. How To Tell If They're Emotionally Unavailable (And Signs You Are Too)

In this episode, I'm breaking down what emotional availability is, why it's important, how it relates to attachment style and signs your date isn't emotionally available. I share tips on how to navigate this and when it's a dealbreaker vs not. At the end, I get into signs you might be the emotionally unavailable one and steps to take toward becoming more emotionally available.


Signs someone is emotionally available episode


Questions:

  • Do I feel secure and confident in where I stand with them?
  • Do they communicate openly and consistently?
  • When I express my needs, do they listen and respond?
  • Do they follow through on what they say?
  • Do they make space for me in their life?
  • Do they show up emotionally when I need support?
  • Are they able to acknowledge their emotions and past relationship patterns?
  • Do I feel like I can be fully myself around them?
  • If I were to stop putting in effort, would this relationship still move forward?


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    254. Breadcrumbed by a Bartender, Boring Dates & Low Attraction (Dating Dilemmas)

    254. Breadcrumbed by a Bartender, Boring Dates & Low Attraction (Dating Dilemmas)

    In this episode, I'm answering four listener dating dilemmas, from deciding whether a "boring" but stable guy is worth more dates to navigating attraction when everything else aligns, to catching feel...

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    253. How The Creator of Burned Haystack Method Found Love on Hinge w/ Dr. Jennie Young

    253. How The Creator of Burned Haystack Method Found Love on Hinge w/ Dr. Jennie Young

    I'm chatting with Dr. Jennie Young, creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method and author of the brand-new book Burn the Haystack, on round two! This time, we're getting into everything from her own...

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    252. How to Break Out Of The "Should I Stay Or Go?" Loop In Relationships

    252. How to Break Out Of The "Should I Stay Or Go?" Loop In Relationships

    I'm getting into relationship rumination and that "should I stay or should I go" loop that keeps you stuck without ever actually making a decision. I'm covering the science behind why your brain does ...

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    251. What To Say In Conflict For Calmer Communication w/ Rikki Cloos

    251. What To Say In Conflict For Calmer Communication w/ Rikki Cloos

    I'm chatting with Rikki Cloos, the creator and author of Anxious Hearts Guide, one of the most grounded, accessible resources out there for healing insecure attachment. We're discussing communication ...

    3 Huhti 52min

    250. Top 5 Ways To Show Interest In Someone (Even If You're Shy)

    250. Top 5 Ways To Show Interest In Someone (Even If You're Shy)

    In this episode, I'm breaking down five practical ways to show interest in early dating, even if you're shy, introverted, or just plain terrified. I'm covering what works, no matter how comfortable yo...

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    249. What Your Dating App Profile Is Really Saying (And How to Fix It) w/ Eric Resnick

    249. What Your Dating App Profile Is Really Saying (And How to Fix It) w/ Eric Resnick

    I'm chatting with Eric Resnick, a dating profile expert with over 20 years of experience and 40,000+ profiles reviewed. We're discussing everything from why Bumble and Tinder are emotionally unhealthy...

    27 Maalis 1h 8min

    248. Why Early Dating Is So Confusing Right Now (Dating Dilemmas)

    248. Why Early Dating Is So Confusing Right Now (Dating Dilemmas)

    I'm answering five dating dilemmas that all circle the same messy truth: early dating is confusing, and you're not alone if you feel like you and your date are on completely different planets. Dating ...

    24 Maalis 28min

    247. The Truth About Low Libido In Relationships (And How to Get It Back) w/ Hannah Johnson

    247. The Truth About Low Libido In Relationships (And How to Get It Back) w/ Hannah Johnson

    I'm chatting with Hannah Johnson, aka The Libido Fairy, a sex educator with over half a million followers who helps women reclaim their desire and actually enjoy sex. We're discussing everything from ...

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