160. Six Reasons You Fall For The "Wrong" People (And How To Stop The Cycle)
Dating Intentionally28 Maalis 2025

160. Six Reasons You Fall For The "Wrong" People (And How To Stop The Cycle)

In this episode, you'll learn some of the main reasons why you might keep falling for people who aren't the right match for you, like feeling drawn to what's familiar or being stuck in the anxious/avoidant cycle. Awareness of your patterns is the first step to breaking out of them! This episode also breaks down steps to catching yourself before you fall for the wrong person (again) and start shifting your focus on folks who could be a great match!


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184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)

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183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi

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181. Modern Meet Cutes: How & Where Folks Are Meeting IRL (Listener Stories)

181. Modern Meet Cutes: How & Where Folks Are Meeting IRL (Listener Stories)

In this episode, I’m diving into the magic of the real-life meet-cute (yes, it still happens)! You'll hear voice notes from listeners sharing stories about how they met people off the apps, plus my ow...

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180. Dating A Friend Without "Ruining It" &  Friendship Advice w/ Anna Goldfarb

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