160. Six Reasons You Fall For The "Wrong" People (And How To Stop The Cycle)
Dating Intentionally28 Maalis 2025

160. Six Reasons You Fall For The "Wrong" People (And How To Stop The Cycle)

In this episode, you'll learn some of the main reasons why you might keep falling for people who aren't the right match for you, like feeling drawn to what's familiar or being stuck in the anxious/avoidant cycle. Awareness of your patterns is the first step to breaking out of them! This episode also breaks down steps to catching yourself before you fall for the wrong person (again) and start shifting your focus on folks who could be a great match!


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