196. The Psychology of Mixed Signals and How to Stop Obsessing

196. The Psychology of Mixed Signals and How to Stop Obsessing

In this episode, I talk about one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating: mixed signals. I break down why people send mixed signals, why they can feel so addicting (even when we know better), and how to spot them early so you don’t waste your time. You’ll hear real listener examples of hot-and-cold behavior, learn the difference between mixed signals and a slow burn, and get practical strategies for deciding when to walk away. We’ll also cover what clear, green-flag signals actually look like so you can focus on what you do want. This week’s dating dilemma is from a listener who feels like a late bloomer and worries that their lack of dating experience is holding them back from finding a meaningful relationship.


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231. What We Get Wrong About Avoidant Attachment w/ Travis Ambrose

231. What We Get Wrong About Avoidant Attachment w/ Travis Ambrose

I'm chatting with Travis Ambrose, an attachment-focused coach who specializes in helping people on the avoidant end of the spectrum heal and build healthier relationships. We're discussing everything ...

23 Tammi 48min

230. Your First Date Pep Talk + Flirting Tips

230. Your First Date Pep Talk + Flirting Tips

Let's get ready for a first date! I'm sharing a pep talk for your next first date, plus my best quick tips for flirting, so you can actually create a romantic connection instead of just a friendly one...

20 Tammi 28min

229. The 4 Things You Should Know by the 4th Date w/ Amy Nobile Messing

229. The 4 Things You Should Know by the 4th Date w/ Amy Nobile Messing

I'm chatting with Amy Nobile Messing, a holistic dating coach who "turbo dated" her way through NYC after leaving a 20-year marriage in her 40. She's now remarried and helping clients of all ages find...

16 Tammi 52min

228. Signs They’re Ready for a Relationship

228. Signs They’re Ready for a Relationship

I’m breaking down the real signs someone is actually ready for a relationship beyond what they say on a dating app or how excited they seem early on. I’m also covering what doesn’t mean much on its ow...

13 Tammi 27min

227. Dating When You've Never Been In A Relationship w/ Allora Dannon

227. Dating When You've Never Been In A Relationship w/ Allora Dannon

In this episode, I'm chatting with Allora Dannon, who went on her first date ever at 32. She's now engaged, and we're discussing everything from how to bring up your lack of experience on a date to na...

9 Tammi 54min

226. 8 "Red Flags" That Are Normal in Long-Term Relationships

226. 8 "Red Flags" That Are Normal in Long-Term Relationships

In this episode, I'm breaking down 8 things that seem like red flags but are actually just part of being with someone for a while, like feeling bored sometimes, not being "in love" every single day, h...

6 Tammi 35min

225. How To Date NATO (Not Attached To Outcome) w/ Erika Ettin

225. How To Date NATO (Not Attached To Outcome) w/ Erika Ettin

In this episode, I’m joined by dating coach Erika Ettin again to break down the mindset shifts that make dating feel calmer, clearer, and more intentional. We talk about dating NATO (not attached to o...

2 Tammi 49min

224. Top 10 Tips For Dating Intentionally In 2026

224. Top 10 Tips For Dating Intentionally In 2026

Starting fresh in dating can feel exciting and overwhelming at the same time. In this episode, I'm sharing my top 10 tips for dating intentionally in 2026, from building confidence and resilience to u...

30 Joulu 202539min

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