Decoding the Mental Prison: Are Your Defenses Also Your Downfall?

In this powerful episode of Soma Says, host Dr. Soma Mandal sits down with Michelle Smith, LPC, LMHC, LCMHC, a trauma-informed psychotherapist who helps women move from survival mode to self-trust.

Michelle shares her personal journey into psychotherapy and unpacks the deep connection between the brain, body, and emotional healing. Together, they explore what it truly means to heal from the inside out—addressing the impact of trauma on the brain, the difference between coping and healing, and how self-compassion, mindfulness, and body awareness can transform mental health.

Listeners will walk away with practical tools for grounding, understanding the nervous system, and recognizing that real healing begins when we stop trying to “fix” ourselves and start listening to our inner wisdom.

This conversation offers insight, hope, and clarity for anyone navigating anxiety, burnout, or emotional overwhelm—especially during the midlife transition.

Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Michelle Smith and Her Work 00:40 Michelle’s Journey into Psychotherapy 01:22 The Mind-Body Connection in Therapy 02:00 Healing from the Inside Out 03:07 Understanding Trauma and Its Impact 04:39 Identifying and Rewiring Hidden Patterns 05:30 Coping vs. Healing 08:12 The Role of the Nervous System in Emotional Regulation 09:29 Building Safety and Awareness in Therapy 10:38 Mindfulness and Body-Based Awareness 11:49 Addressing Perfectionism and Guilt 14:42 Returning to the Authentic Self 16:03 Common Myths About Mental Health and Trauma 17:04 Favorite Grounding Techniques 18:10 Finding the Right Therapist for Trauma and Anxiety 19:15 Integrating Evidence-Based Practices with Intuitive Tools 20:20 The Role of AI in Therapy 23:38 Human Resilience and the Power of Therapy 26:22 Advice for Those Feeling Stuck in Their Healing Journey 27:44 Inspiring Patient Journeys and the Importance of Self-Care 31:48 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Connect with Michelle Smith

🌐 Website: www.michellesmithlmhc.com 📲 Instagram: www.somamandalmd.com 🏥 Upcoming Medical Director of Women’s Health, Hackensack Meridian Health – Jersey Shore University Medical Center 📚 Book: Midlife Masala — available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, and BookBub 🎧 Listen to Soma Says on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube @SomaSays 📲 Instagram: @drsomamandalmd 💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Soma Mandal, MD

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