Front Porch Swingers

As a special treat for Episode 400, we thought it would be soooo fun to each go back and listen to one of our episodes from years past. But the little social experiment was anything but fun. Instead, ...

11 Touko 44min

For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of distraction and escapism. In this episode, we get VERY hones...

4 Touko 44min

As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual for all, other instances had us questioning if group...

27 Huhti 44min

We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the lifestyle? And what happens if...

20 Huhti 43min

It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us qu...

13 Huhti 46min

A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take!  Join us for an upcoming event, i...

6 Huhti 46min

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you ca...

30 Maalis 46min

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your m...

23 Maalis 43min