On Purpose with Jay Shetty

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Dr. Joe Dispenza joins Jay Shetty to talk about how our thoughts and emotions can affect our physical body, the unconscious process of making your feelings become the means of thinking, and reaching an awareness of the possibilities you haven’t thought before.Dr Joe holds a Bachelor of Science degree and is a Doctor of Chiropractic. His post graduate training includes the fields of neuroscience and neuroplasticity, quantitative electroencephalogram (QEEG) measurements, epigenetics, mind-body medicine, and brain/heart coherence.What We Discuss with Dr. Joe:00:00 Intro01:55 What's the biggest difficulty or challenge you've had to overcome in the past 12 months?04:57 Challenging thoughts we’ve developed that affects how we feel07:34 The Familiar Past, our feelings become the means of thinking12:33 Overcoming your old personality to create the energy to heal18:24 In the unknown, you learn how to be comfortable with the unknown23:27 Processing problems productively and effectively through thoughts27:50 Not reacting emotionally is going to change the energy of how you address a situation33:17 The fear has to be addressed if you want to be healed37:54 Why is our memory for pain stronger than our memory of success or joy?43:19 Your experience produces a feeling that is not chemical48:25 What disconnects us from our awakening and connection to the divine54:36 Deducing the energy frequency of the people you meet58:11 The heart is the middle path, it’s a union of polarity01:08:47 People are the example of truth, we take care of one another and we heal together01:14:13 The purpose of life is to figure out its purpose01:17:02 Dr. Joe on Final FiveLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Episode Resources:Dr. Joe Dispenza | WebsiteDr. Joe Dispenza | TwitterDr. Joe Dispenza | InstagramDr. Joe Dispenza | FacebookDr. Joe Dispenza | LinkedInDr. Joe Dispenza | YouTubeDr. Joe Dispenza | AmazonAchieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

7 Kesä 20211h 22min

Finding the reason to let go and move on is never because of a simple reason. It is often a result of a series of stressful events, unreasonable situations, and in some cases, traumatic experiences that make us anxious. These unpleasant circumstances push us to the end and would make us question ourselves if it’s still worth staying or is it finally time to move on. Or, if you’re mentally and emotionally prepared to leave it all behind and restart your life somewhere else. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about ten questions we should ask before we decide to end a relationship or leave our job, and what we can do to prepare for when we’re ready to leave. Key Takeaways: 01:12 Are you thinking of finally leaving or letting go? 05:06 Question #1: Am I safe? 09:02 Question #2: Am I free to be or am I performing? 12:15 You don’t have to go right away as soon as you realize you’re pretending 12:48 Question #3: Am I honoring my values? 15:54 Question #4: Am I holding back or being held back? 17:52 Question #5: Am I here for the potential and what could be? 20:12 Question #6: Am I the only one trying? 23:22 Question #7: Can I forgive? 24:35 Question #8: Am I being honest? 26:24 Question #9: Am I otherwise fulfilled? 27:56 Question #10: Is there more to learn here? 29:41 Make a decision that serves you best in the long term Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

4 Kesä 202130min

Jocko Willink (@jockowillink) joins Jay Shetty to talk about extreme ownership and discipline, switching from a competition-based to a collaborative culture, building trust even in stressful situations, and mastering your self-discipline. He is a retired naval officer who served in the Navy SEALs and an author of several books including Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win. He also co-hosts Jocko Podcast that discusses discipline and leadership in business, war, relationships, and everyday life. What We Discuss with Jocko: 00:00 Intro 02:08 The most difficult thing to go through 02:57 How do you process a difficult situation and be ready to go through the experience 06:07 What you go through is your present, nothing else will matter 08:18 Are you born a leader or did experience make you one? 13:44 Working through procrastination and overthinking 18:01 Lessons learned from joining the Navy Seals 20:14 Turning a competitive and comparison based culture to a collaborative culture 26:37 Principles and methods to build trust in high stress situations 29:53 The biggest leadership mistakes and the key takeaways 33:20 Rather than beating yourself up, practice extreme ownership 36:34 Taking criticisms from someone you don’t respect 38:54 Your ego against the decentralized command strategy 43:07 When people are struggling with self discipline, where do you start? 47:06 Start self discipline by waking up earlier in the morning 49:24 Life lessons learned after leaving the military 53:20 Jocko on Final Five Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Episode Resources: Jocko Willink | Twitter Jocko Willink | Instagram Jocko Willink | Podcast Jocko Willink | Books Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

31 Touko 202157min

Have you ever wished you could change someone in your life? Have you tried changing someone to fit your ideals and beliefs? If so, have you succeeded? Did it make you happy? It’s frustrating to try and change someone who isn’t willing to change, especially when your circumstances aren’t helping. This will only trigger stress and anxiety, and will continuously deplete your inner peace and compassion. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why we should stop trying to change others and instead, focus on loving ourselves through cultivating patience, tolerance, and compassion. Key Takeaways: 01:29 Have you tried changing someone in your life? 02:25 Top 3 reasons couples fight: money, sex, children 03:36 The reasons why we try to change others 05:08 In trying to positively impact the world, we are changing ourselves 05:45 3 things that happen when we try to change people 08:01 Reason #1: We care more for comfort than change 12:52 Reason #2: We can’t understand others because of own narrow thinking 15:20 Reason #3: We think we are always right 18:04 Reason #4: We don’t understand the value of diversity 20:40 Change and the motivation to change are an inside job Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Touko 202122min

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Perry joined Jay Shetty in their first ever virtual book tour event for the recently released book they co-authored, What Happened to You? We talk about how they are redefining childhood trauma, why experiences at a young age mold our adult life, and finding rhythm and balance to start healing yourself.Oprah is an accomplished author, talk show host, actress, producer and philanthropist. Dr. Bruce Perry is a neuroscientist and psychiatrist, currently the senior fellow of the Child Trauma Academy in Houston, Texas and today, we will find out “What happened to you”What We Discuss with Oprah and Dr. Perry:00:00 Intro02:24 Meeting Dr. Bruce Perry and the journey towards understanding “What Happened to You”05:57 Commonly misunderstood concept about trauma09:06 Going beyond success to heal your trauma11:05 The younger the children, the more influence you have on who they become12:24 Oprah on Fast Five19:05 Switch from “What is wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”24:13 Life-long study on child trauma and how it started27:52 The connection between childhood experience and adulthood32:53 What should parents do differently to express love to their children?41:27 Finding the time to create a rhythm and balance46:24 Misconceptions about the stress response system that leads to trauma50:14 Neglect is as toxic as trauma53:26 Reaching an understanding so can process your pain and anger01:06:39 The difference between coping and healingLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Episode Resources:What Happened to You?The Oprah Winfrey ShowOprah Winfrey | FacebookOprah Winfrey | TwitterDr. Bruce Perry | TwitterDr. Bruce Perry | WebsiteDr. Bruce Perry | BooksAchieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community.Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

24 Touko 20211h 14min

When our emotions become overwhelming, we lose our ability to make sound decisions. We struggle to listen to anyone or anything else, even though our intuition seldom guides us wrong. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty reveals five reasons why many of us struggle to be in tune with our intuitions and how this leads to trust issues & self-doubt. Key Takeaways: 01:20 1.2M had to leave the workforce due to the pandemic 02:39 Reason #1: We don’t understand the different roles of our minds and our emotions 04:43 Our brain and body coordinate to create emotions 06:27 When we feel discomfort, we come up with a label for it 09:28 Reason #2: We think we have all the facts to sort through until we get an intuitive hit on what to do 11:51 Reason #3: Our brain has inherent biases 15:45 Freewriting helps us get to our thoughts and beliefs we have trouble accessing 16:58 Reason #4: We underestimate the impact of culture on how we see the world 17:48 Reason #5: We keep weakening our intuition by ignoring it 18:33 Schedule time with yourself to be alone to listen to your mind and body Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Touko 202121min

Dr. Shefali (@DrShefali) joins Jay Shetty to talk about overcoming the objectification of feminine energy and how this suppression holds many women back from embracing their power She is a New York Times best-selling author and a clinical psychologist specializing in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the globe. What We Discuss with Dr. Shefali: 00:00 Intro 02:19 Women are the nurturing emblem for our children 03:21 How women’s power has been dampened and weakened over time 09:06 Getting lost in the idea of containing another person as possession 12:49 First step to radical awakening 16:16 Women are conditioned to keep it all together 20:23 Finding the motivation and inspiration to keep moving 23:59 A lot of women are putting everyone before themselves 31:21 Why men move on faster in any situation 34:22 When we internalize the concept of objectification 46:47 Embracing emptiness: we are all the mirrors of each other 50:28 Dr. Shefali on Final Five Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Episode Resources: Dr. Shefali | Website Dr. Shefali | Facebook Dr. Shefali | YouTube Dr. Shefali | Twitter Dr. Shefali | Instagram Dr. Shefali | Books Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

17 Touko 202153min

Who doesn’t worry about the future? At some point in our lives, we all fear the unknown, and anxiety fills our thoughts. Although these feelings are very common, the best way to deal with them is to understand where they are coming from and knowing and how they coincide with what stage you are in your life. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares five strategies to help you better manage these fears, along with practical exercises you can use today to build better self-confidence. Learn more about fear & the path to moving forward in chapter 3 of my bestselling book, Think Like a Monk, available here Key Takeaways: 01:49 Worrying about the uncertain future 02:25 10 categories of fears that we have 05:05 Strategy #1: It’s normal for us to worry about the future 09:07 Strategy #2: Instead of focusing on the details, focus on our target 11:13 Strategy #3: The big payoff of worry is it gives us the illusion of control 14:13 Strategy #4: Create a flexible framework to deal with future fears 20:45 Strategy #5: Grit is staying determinedly on the path, but be able to distinguish between distraction and an unexpected opportunity Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

14 Touko 202126min