32. But I Was Doing So Well
That "good stretch, then nothing" pattern? We've decided it means we're inconsistent. Getting lazy. What if the pattern itself is trying to tell us something completely different? In this episode: Why...
28 Touko 34min
31. When Did the Mask Creep Back On?
We were doing it. Things were fitting better. There was more of us left over at the end of the day. And then, without noticing, the mask crept back on. Not dramatically. Just a little less of ourselve...
21 Touko 11min
30. Done Performing Normal
You know the way you are is not wrong. You're embracing your AuDHD identity. And yet — the minute someone raises an eyebrow, you feel yourself shrink. Back to performing. Back to apologizing for takin...
2 Huhti 12min
29. Friendship Without the Rules
You know that exhausted, shame-spiral feeling when you haven't replied to a message in a week? Or the quiet worry that you're just...not built for close friendship? What if the problem was never you —...
26 Maalis 34min
28. Making Up is Hard (Repair & PDA)
What does repair look like when both of you are neurodivergent — and both of you are PDA? Not the stuff the books say. The real stuff. The texting instead of talking, the AI translation, the sitting a...
19 Maalis 43min
27. When Your Partner is ND Too
Ahh…neurodiverse love. When you're AuDHD and your partner is also neurodivergent, being understood doesn't make it easier. It just makes it different. Two ND nervous systems create their own ecosystem...
12 Maalis 44min
26. Peopled Out by Tuesday
What if the coffee dates, the group chats, the "good friend" checklist — what if none of that was designed for you? This episode is about exploring where our social spoons are really going and redesig...
5 Maalis 35min
25. That Constant Scattered Feeling
You know that feeling — like your thoughts are fractured, your brain feels chaotic, and there's always a low hum that you wish you could turn off. You want to feel grounded, peaceful. So you reach fo...
26 Helmi 35min
