
101. Clumsy or Self Sabotage: Decoding Narcissist’s « I was unlucky » narrative
Everyone makes bad decisions sometimes. So it’s easy to assume that all bad decisions are « good faith bad decisions ». But narcissists game this. And we can figure out when. In this episode, I share ...
26 Touko 202427min

102. Why Are Narcissists Mean (and Then Nice)?
Toxic people and narcissists are often mean. And then nice. Or first nice, and then mean. And it seems to make no sense. But there is a really good reason why they act this way. And it probably explai...
26 Touko 202430min

100. What Does A Risk / Reward Analysis of Toxic Relationships and Narcissists Show?
Narcissists are a bad deal. So let's see if tools used to analyse deals can help us identify toxic relationships and make more sense of why they are such a... bad deal. #npd #narcissism #narcissist ...
9 Touko 202428min

099. Recognising (And Debunking) Narc Logic
It is increasingly common for people to think like narcissists. And until we're aware of what that looks like, there is a risk we do too. We know narcissists have a simplistic view of the world. Here ...
2 Touko 202429min

098. Mistakes About Narcissism
There are some common mistakes people make around narcissism. These mistakes PREVENT people from moving on, getting their lives back on track - they therefore INCREASE the price paid even AFTER the ab...
25 Huhti 202429min

097. Narcissists & Groups: 6 Stages They Follow to Infiltrate, Take Over and Corrupt
Narcissists love to infiltrate and take over groups. It's less effort than creating a group. There are certain patterns they follow. I observe 6 stages of the takeover. Hopefully this will make you le...
19 Huhti 202429min

096. "Is It Even Knoweable?" - Debunking Narcissists Ridiculous Claims
Narcissists will claim to know a lot. They will appear certain. And yet, many of the things they claim to know are... unknowable. Or it is not possible for them to be as certain as they are. In this e...
10 Huhti 202430min

095. Debunking Terrible Suggestions On Dealing With Narcissists
I just came across an article "what words can destroy a narcissist" on some website. I think it was generated by AI. And it was full of really toxic ideas and thought structures. I recorded my debunki...
1 Huhti 202425min



















