Address Unknown: Where the F Are My Kids? (Wait… Am I a Stalker?)
TL;DR: You shouldn’t have to be called a “stalker” to find out where your kids are sleeping. But if you have a high-conflict co-parent, it happens—often. And you definitely shouldn’t be threatened for...
3 Helmi 51min
Contempt in Custody Cases: Fear Tactics, Lies, and What It Really Means
TL;DR: Contempt is one of the most intimidating words in family court—but it’s also one of the most misunderstood. In this episode, we break down what contempt really means in custody cases, what it d...
31 Tammi 49min
Performative Parenting: If Nobody’s Watching, Does it Count? (The Co-Parenting Olympics)
TL;DR: When co-parenting turns into a performance, it’s not about the kids—it’s about who’s watching. We unpack performative parenting, the Co-Parenting Olympics, and why some parents suddenly become ...
27 Tammi 58min
Guardian ad Litem: Hell by Appointment
TL;DR: What is a Guardian ad Litem, and what happens in high-conflict custody cases? This episode explains the Guardian ad Litem process, what parents can expect, and why GAL recommendations can feel ...
24 Tammi 53min
Parental Alienation vs. Estrangement: How Courts Are Being Used as a Battlefield
TL;DR Parental alienation and estrangement are not the same thing — but in family court, they get used like they are. Lawyers are uses alienation as a weapon, and the costs are children. Is this a rea...
20 Tammi 50min
Lawyers: How High-Conflict Co-Parenting Becomes a $20,000 Hell
TL;DR Lawyers, $400/hour billing, $20,000 retainers, the nicknames that get us through, and the real cost of litigating love. This isn’t legal advice — it’s a real conversation about what happens when...
17 Tammi 58min
She’s Crazy: The High-Conflict Baby Mama Label and the Cost of Defending Yourself
TL;DR: “She’s crazy” is the oldest trick in the book — and family court loves it. In this episode, we embrace the label and talk about how we got branded “crazy, stupid, witches” after years of gaslig...
13 Tammi 51min
Reactive Abuse: Gaslighting, Cheating, Ashley Madison, and Being Labeled The High-Conflict Co-Parent
TL;DR: Poke. Poke. Poke. Then you react — and suddenly you’re the villain. That’s reactive abuse. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like in real life: cheating, Ashley Madison, gaslighting...
11 Tammi 47min
