
#244: I Healed My Anxious Attachment… So Why Don’t I Want a Relationship Anymore? (Ask Steph)
In this Ask Steph episode, I’m responding to a question I hear more often than you might expect. Someone has done a lot of work on their anxious attachment patterns, they feel more grounded and secure...
26 Maalis 7min

#243: How to Create Healthy, Balanced Relationships with Nedra Glover Tawwab
In this episode, I’m joined by therapist, bestselling author, and boundaries expert Nedra Glover Tawwab for a powerful conversation on what it really means to have healthy dependency in our relationsh...
24 Maalis 43min

#242: When Does Self-Improvement Become Self-Sabotage? (Ask Steph)
In this Ask Steph episode, I respond to a listener question about the fine line between personal growth and the endless pursuit of self-improvement.While healing, reflection, and growth are powerful t...
19 Maalis 6min

#241: How to Date from Self-Worth
Modern dating can be tough. Between apps, ghosting, and the uncertainty that often comes with meeting strangers outside our social circles, the whole process can be seriously activating — and all the ...
17 Maalis 17min

#240: The #1 Thing to Focus On to Heal Anxious Attachment (Ask Steph)
In today’s Ask Steph episode, I’m answering the listener question: If you were only going to focus on one thing to start healing anxious attachment, what would it be?While there are many layers to thi...
12 Maalis 6min

#239: The Anxious Attachment Healing Roadmap
If you've been putting in the work to heal your anxious attachment but still feel like you're treading water, this episode is for you. In today's episode, I'm sharing what I believe are the three core...
10 Maalis 25min

#238: Can a Relationship Survive If Only One Person is Doing the Work? (Ask Steph)
In this Ask Steph episode, I respond to a listener question I hear often: If I work on my anxious attachment, but my partner doesn’t work on their avoidant patterns, can the relationship still work?I ...
5 Maalis 8min

#237: How Anxious & Avoidant People Differ Around Breakups
In this episode, we explore one of the most painful dynamics after a breakup: watching your ex seem “fine” while you feel completely unravelled — and the stories that comparison creates. We unpack why...
3 Maalis 18min




















