
65: Can you be "single" while in partnership?
Whether you never got to be single because you met your partner young, you've been in a string of back-to-back relationships, or you're longing for the freedom that supposedly comes with the single li...
22 Touko 202322min

64: Are you nurturing your "inner relationship"? with Luci Lampe
It's easy to focus on our partners and neglect our own "inner relationship." In this episode, my friend Luci Lampe and I discuss the balance between our masculine and feminine sides - yin and yang - f...
16 Touko 20231h 3min

63: Why reassurance seeking is not free (and what to do instead)
In this episode, I share the costs of reassurance seeking, the act of trying to find certainty about your relationship. If you tend to constantly be searching for the perfect piece of advice (even fro...
8 Touko 202339min

62: Why a lack of commitment is not freedom
In this episode, I unpack one of the biggest hidden myths I see in society: that commitment = lack of freedom. If you struggle with commitment, I will share with you some reasons why you might be stru...
1 Touko 202347min

61: How do you know if you're in the "right" relationship? With coach Sarah Yudkin
In this episode, I chat with a dear friend of mine and coach, Sarah Yudkin, who has been inhabiting the relationship anxiety space with me for years! In this episode, we address the following: What is...
24 Huhti 202354min

60: "I am so controlling of my partner but I don't know how to stop. Help!"
If you experience relationship anxiety, you might be familiar with the urge to try to change your partner so that you can feel better about your decision to be with them, and stop doubting the relatio...
10 Huhti 20231h

59: How the pressure to have an amazing honeymoon/vacation can ruin it
In this episode, I talk about the trap of "more is better" embedded in the honeymoon/vacation expectation and how that played out in our own honeymoon. It is my hope you can avoid this trap on your va...
3 Huhti 202340min

58: 15 lessons on partnership I've learned from Argentine Tango
This a fun episode for you – full of metaphors and nuanced relationship advice. Enjoy! SALE on Programs through 2/22 - 3/25: 30% off with code HONEY30 Quit comparing your relationship in 7 days ha...
21 Maalis 202332min



















