EP304 - How Erectile Dysfunction Affects a Woman Ft Dr Rachel Needle

Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it.In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between partners.Once retired, Jeff found his encore career in the sexual wellness space, bringing sharp business instincts, integrity, and a bold sense of mission to Promescent.Originally from a struggling town in Pennsylvania, Jeff built a successful recruiting career in Silicon Valley, placing top engineers at tech giants like AMD, Motorola, and Lam Research. During his career, he was instructed by a major car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color in the hiring process, an order he refused to follow. Instead, Jeff took a stand and filed an anti-discrimination lawsuit against the company. Against the odds, he won, driven by a core belief in doing the right thing.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding The Root Causes Of Premature Ejaculation·      Why Most PE Cases Are Physiological, Not Psychological·      How Porn Skews Our Expectations Of Sexual Performance·      Defining PE: Clinical Criteria Vs. Subjective Experience·      Closing The Arousal Gap For Mutual Satisfaction·      Why Communication Is Crucial For Sexual Confidence·      How Promescent’s Patented Formula Avoids Numbing Your Partner·      Tips For Introducing Delay Sprays Without Hurting Feelings·      The Psychological Boost Of Feeling In Control During Intimacy·      Why Quality Sex Toys And Lubes Are Investments In Your Wellbeing Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Book an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

27 Mai 47min

Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman, Candia Raquel, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, Dr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.In this episode, you will hear:·      Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues·      How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy·      The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance·      Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure·      Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms·      How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness·      The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety·      Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters·      How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations·      Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Free Erotica Checklist Book an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

20 Mai 22min

Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise. In this episode, you will hear:·      The Hills’ Personal Journey·      Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life·      The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy·      How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection·      The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions·      Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner·      The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy·      How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom·      Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.Free Erotica ChecklistBook an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Connection CodesUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

13 Mai 50min

Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication. In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to initiate sex, redefining what “counts” as sex, and how understanding each other’s intentions can greatly enhance intimacy. Brittany Steffen is the owner and founder of Steffen Counseling Services. She earned her graduate degree in marriage and family therapy from Seattle Pacific University in 2012 and has worked as a therapist in the Seattle area for over a decade. In 2018, she began the process of becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist to meet the growing demand for specialized sex therapy services.In this episode, you will hear:·      Top Three Conversations Every Couple Should Have About Sex·      How To Navigate Desire Discrepancy Without Blame·      Shifting From Yes/No Sex to a Menu of Possibilities·      Why Defining “Sex” Broadly Can Improve Intimacy·      Understanding the Emotional Weight of Sexual Rejection·      How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure or Shame·      Requests vs. Demands: A Key Distinction in Sexual Communication·      Common Traps That Lead to Sexual Conflict in Long-Term Relationships·      How Self-Reflection Can Improve Your Sex Life Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.Free Erotica ChecklistUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

6 Mai 43min

Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative when approached with clear communication, consent, and a sense of curiosity.Danielle and Celeste share their personal journey of entering the world of sex parties, offering valuable insight into how these experiences can deepen intimacy, spark erotic creativity, and provide healing opportunities for individuals and couples alike.Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they’ve transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they’ve trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding the Modern Role of Sex Parties·      Exploration of Monogamy, Polyamory Relationships·      The Importance of Clear Communication and Consent·      How Sex Parties Can Strengthen Emotional Intimacy·      Navigating Jealousy, Compersion, and Erotic Curiosity·      Preparation Tips for First-Time Attendees·      How to Host a Consent-Centered and Inclusive Event·      The Emotional Core Behind Erotic Desires·      Addressing Relationship Misconceptions Around Opening Up·      Resources for Finding and Learning About Sex-Positive Communities Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

29 Apr 33min

Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn, a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care.In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether a threesome is right for them, including how to assess trust, emotional safety, and shared curiosity. We also talk about the importance of open dialogue, emotional preparation, and creating safe, judgment-free zones to explore these conversations.Tia Lynn is a TEDX speaker, host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast and a Sex & Intimacy coach. She loves to help high-achieving women tap into their feminine energy, reignite their sexy confidence to have the best sex of their life. Her methods are known to increase self-confidence, income, and better sex!In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding the Fantasy vs. Reality of Threesomes·      How to Know If You and Your Partner Are Ready·      Importance of Trust, Communication, and Consent·      Common Emotional Pitfalls to Avoid·      Tips for Bringing Up the Topic with Your Partner·      Where and How to Meet a Potential Third·      Screening for Safety and Emotional Compatibility·      Setting Boundaries and Managing Jealousy·      Initiating Intimacy Without Awkwardness·      Why Aftercare Is Just as Important as the Act Itself Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

22 Apr 31min

Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Rain DeGrey, who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men.In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massage and milking, highlighting how both are often misunderstood. We explore how performance anxiety, shame, and cultural taboos can shape our sexual experiences - and how embracing pleasure as a valid goal can be deeply healing.Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Prostate Massage vs. Milking·      Why Performance Pressure Reduces Pleasure·      The Myth of Proven Health Benefits·      Pleasure as a Valid, Healing Goal·      How Anxiety Impacts Sexual Function·      Practical Safety Tips for Anal Play·      The Link Between Shame and Patriarchal Norms·      Prostate Play Without Penetration·      Navigating Prostate Stimulation with Toys·      The Value of Sex Education and Ongoing Learning Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

15 Apr 40min

Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Anna Lee, the CEO and co-founder of Lioness, who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms.In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted in data-driven pleasure and sexual wellness. We dive into how her cultural upbringing shaped her early relationship with sexuality and how she turned a personal healing journey into a revolutionary tool that helps people explore their bodies. Anna Lee is the co-founder and CEO of Lioness, the startup that built the world’s first and only smart vibrator that helps improves sexual pleasure through biofeedback orgasm data and research. Anna was previously a mechanical engineer at Amazon, launching the Amazon Dash Button and the Kindle Voyage. She was most recently named one of Newsweek’s 10 Innovators Disrupting Healthcare as well as Forbes 30 Under 30. Realizing the underrepresentation of women engineers in sextech and the lack of research, Anna has made it a mission to expand understanding and research in sexual pleasure.In this episode, you will hear:·      Anna Lee’s Journey From Tech to Pleasure Innovation·      How Lioness Tracks and Visualizes Orgasm Patterns·      The Role of Engineering in Designing for Female Pleasure·      The Cultural Taboo Around Female Masturbation·      Cannabis and Caffeine as Orgasm Enhancers·      The Science Behind Pelvic Floor Contractions·      Data Insights on Age and Orgasm Strength·      Addressing the Orgasm Gap with Research and Tech·      The Importance of Curiosity in Sexual Wellness·      Empowerment Through Pleasure and Knowledge Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Their diverse lineup includes delay sprays, lubricants, vibrators, and more - all carefully curated to support sexual wellness and intimacy. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

8 Apr 40min