EP313 - The Truth About Contraception, Abortion and Miscarriage ft Dr. Kathryn LaRoche

Welcome to episode 373 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Rena Martine. In today's episode, Rena discusses her personal journey that led her from a conventional career as a Deputy District Attorney specializing in hard crimes to her current path as an intimacy coach and sexual wellness advocate. She discusses the importance of self-compassion, body adoration, media awareness, and perspective in cultivating a healthier self-image and deeper intimacy in sexual relationships.  Rena Martine, a native Los Angeleno, now resides in Echo Park, near her partner. Passionate about smelly cheese, dramatic cinema, and 60’s music, she enjoys dancing and spending time with her Siamese cat, Lucha ("Chooch"). Rena often connects with loved ones, radiating happiness and occasionally enjoying a cocktail.   Holding a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School and a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles, Rena excelled as a law review editor and author. She also earned a certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. As a Certified Life Coach with Lumia Coaching and a Master Coach recognized by High Impact Coaching, she is committed to her career, continually enhancing her knowledge and skills through ongoing research and client interactions.   In this episode you will hear:  Rena Martine's Journey into Sex Coaching The Gap in Sexual Self-Help Books Unveiling Rena's New Book The Impact of Self-Image on Sexuality How to Have Sensitive Conversations Transitioning from Prosecution to Pleasure Advocacy The CAMP Method for Body Love The Influence of Media on Body Image  Iroha Sponsor https://collabs.shopify.com/collab/2225176 101 Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

13 Feb 202430min

Welcome to episode 372 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Pasciucco. In today's episode, Amanda emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and thorough knowledge of knot tying for both the rigger and the receiver. The conversation touches on the history of Shibari, its cultural relevance, and its sensual, alluring nature. She also warns of potential risks and mistakes, suggesting that the art should be learned from a master or an experienced practitioner.  Dr. Amanda Pasciucco, known as "The Sex Healer," is a renowned catalyst for reigniting passion in romantic and sexual relationships. With over 15 years of experience, she has helped thousands of individuals and couples transform their sexual lives. As a Latina international clinician and speaker, Dr. Pasciucco has been featured in prestigious publications such as Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and PsychCentral, as well as prominent media outlets like CNN, TLC, and Playboy.   Her expertise extends to working with high-profile clients, including musicians, celebrities, reality TV stars, public figures, and Olympic athletes. Through online therapy, she provides discreet care to all those in need, ensuring confidentiality and privacy in accordance with the ethical code of licensed professionals.   Dr. Pasciucco's success is evident in the consistent 5-star reviews she and her team receive from clients. Her charismatic and straightforward approach, combined with the integration of tantra techniques, sex therapy, and somatic experience, serves as a powerful motivator for individuals seeking personal growth and fulfillment in their intimate lives.   In this episode you will hear:  Understanding Shibari: The Art of Japanese Rope Bondage The History and Popularity of Shibari Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations Understanding the Attraction and Benefits of Bondage Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations The Artistry and Complexity of Shibari Why Communication and Trust is key in Shibari The Importance of Aftercare in Shibari  Afternoon Delight: A Live Podcast Experience https://adlive.eventbrite.com  Couply Sponsor https://couply.page.link/afternoondelight  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

6 Feb 202448min

Welcome to episode 371 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Erika Lust. In today's episode, Erika discusses her journey and perspective on creating ethical adult films.  A political science student interested in gender studies and sexuality; Erika was dissatisfied with the male-centric portrayal of women in conventional pornography. She believes ethical porn production caters to the woman's gaze, portrays relatable pleasure, and presents a broader scope of sexual experiences.  Erika Lust, an acclaimed independent erotic filmmaker, is renowned for her sex-positive adult cinema that challenges gender stereotypes and rejects harmful fetishizations. With a focus on relatable characters and realistic intimate scenes, she offers a groundbreaking alternative to mainstream porn. Over the past two decades, the Lust brand has flourished, with Erika directing six feature films and series, as well as over 130 short films and producing approximately 150 more.   In 2015, Erika delivered a compelling TEDx talk titled 'It's Time for Porn to Change', emphasizing the need for transformation within the industry. Her story was showcased in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On ("Women on Top")', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. Recognized for her influence, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women's most influential women of the year in 2019. Her alternative approach to pornography gained further recognition in 2022, as it was featured in The New York Times and the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'. Additionally, she delivered a TEDx Talk in Athens, urging adults to engage in 'The Porn Conversation' with younger generations.   In this episode you will hear:  Erika's Journey to Becoming a Porn Director The Problem with Mainstream Porn Creating a New Perspective in Porn The Evolution of Porn Industry Understanding the Importance of Storytelling in Porn Overcoming Stigma Around Working in the Porn Industry The Impact of Commercialization on Porn Analyzing The Future of the Porn Industry  Beducate https://beducate.me/pd2406-sexology   Use code – sexology  Free Erotica https://oasis2care.com/free-erotica/  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

30 Jan 202448min

Welcome to episode 370 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Natasha Helfer. In today's episode, we discuss the negative impact of sexual shame often fostered in religious societies, touching on topics such as: religious trauma, community expectations on sexual behavior and the shunning of self-determination.  Natasha Helfer is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families. She creates an approachable and safe space, often using humor, for discussing sensitive topics. Helfer specializes in assisting clients with interpersonal relationships, sexual development, and navigating religious or spiritual journeys. She is adept at supporting individuals whether they choose to remain in or leave their faith communities, respecting all religious choices.   Helfer is a seasoned speaker, presenting at national and professional conferences, universities, and hosting retreats, training, and workshops. She has a broad experience working with thousands of clients in both private practice and agency settings and is open to speaking engagements. She advocates for sexual health in marginalized populations, including LGBTQ+, religious minorities, and women, and works to de-stigmatize sexual lifestyle choices influenced by cultural, personal, or religious biases.   She offers both in-office and online therapy, coaching, and consultation services to a diverse clientele, including national and international clients. Helfer is also available for training and consultation with ecclesiastical leaders and mental health professionals on specific cases.   Additionally, Helfer serves as a supervisor for AASECT, guiding professionals seeking AASECT certification.   In this episode you will hear:  The Role of Fear and Guilt in Sexual Behavior Understanding the Impact of Cultural and Religious Messages on Sexuality Exploring the Spectrum of Religion and Sexuality The Misconceptions and Myths Surrounding Sexuality Creativity in Sexual Pleasure The Role of Fantasy in Sexuality How Fear and Guilt impact Sexual Behavior Understanding the Impact of Sexual Shame on Mental Health The importance of Education in Sexual Safety  Afternoon Delight: A Live Podcast Experience https://adlive.eventbrite.com    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

23 Jan 202438min

Welcome to episode 369 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. In today's episode, we discuss various aspects of pelvic floor function, emphasizing how aging and factors like obesity, constipation, and physical trauma can weaken it, consequently affecting sexual health and leading to issues like erectile dysfunction and chronic pelvic pain.  Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a dedicated clinician and coach, celebrated for her role as the founder of Bathurst Family Therapy™. She thrives in her role as a support system and guide for healing, aspiring to assist others through the information and advice shared on her site, fostering self-discovery.   Dr. Bathurst specializes in working with couples and relationships, focusing on identifying and eliminating destructive communication patterns. She develops personalized plans to assist her clients in shaping their ideal-self within their partnerships. Her expertise extends to working with various relationship dynamics, including ethical non-monogamy, multi-amorous, kink, BDSM, swinging, and open relationships, and she embraces clients of all races, gender expressions, and sexual orientations.   Excitingly, Dr. Bathurst offers Couples Retreats in Oahu, HI, which present a unique integrative and holistic approach to relationship and sexual re-attachment. These retreats combine structured therapeutic techniques with the relaxing ambiance of a vacation, as seen in the sample itinerary and video available through a provided link, specifically tailored for married couples.   In this episode you will hear:  The importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health How pelvic floor consists of muscles and ligaments supporting reproductive organs Why a weak pelvic floor can lead to sexual challenges like erectile dysfunction How decline in collagen production from mid-twenties impacts pelvic floor function Understanding Peyronie's Disease, a condition causing painful curvature in the penis How obesity, constipation and prolonged pelvic pain can weaken the pelvic floor Why incorrect Kegel exercises can lead to problems How floor exercises can help with prostate health & recovery post-prostate surgery Looking at "Philates" a program combining Pilates with pelvic floor exercises  Optimal Performance https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/optimal-performance    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

16 Jan 202433min

Welcome to episode 368 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Katherine Bejanyan. In today's episode, we discuss how cultural and religious backgrounds shape individual expectations in relationships, the impact of early family dynamics, societal norms on intimacy, and the importance of effective communication.  Katherine Bejanyan is deeply passionate about relationships and is dedicated to helping others in this realm. Her professional activities include providing relationship counseling for both couples and singles.   In her role as a relationship expert and consultant for an exclusive dating agency, Bejanyan offers specialized guidance and insights. Additionally, she contributes her knowledge and perspectives on relationships through her writings for the Huffington Post.   Her primary objective is to continuously deepen her understanding of relationships and enhance her skills in assisting others with their relationship challenges.  Understanding more about relationships in cross-cultural contexts How cultural backgrounds significantly shape our expectations The way early family dynamics and societal norms deeply influence personal beliefs Common relationship challenges; handling family expectations and finances How misunderstandings in intimacy and sexual expectations are common The importance of effective communication, particularly in addressing differences  Key strategies for repairing relationship ruptures  Stress Management Toolkit https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in   Afternoon Delight Event https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoon-delight-a-live-podcast-experience-tickets-767718646137?aff=oddtdtcreator&fbclid=PAAaa4MHRYpHP__3FcrH5G8G1qoLafa6qm3FjHyTUo7y4YM1gb52iTz8Kezwg_aem_AY0LrKeHQTwVeCxZyS0OsxFNMf_Os87_jee5qNlmIVMC6-IEgyPrcWsQRm59i6iilH8    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

9 Jan 202437min

Welcome to episode 367 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Ricky Arenson. In today's episode, Dr. Arenson will be sharing his expertise on his recently published book titled "Women are Superior to Men." We will delve into the motivations and revelations that inspired his work, as well as delve into the complexities of relationships and the significance of comprehending dynamic interactions.  Dr. Ricky Arenson, raised under the shadow of Table Mountain in Cape Town, was deeply influenced by the societal divisions of Apartheid, fueling his commitment to bridging gaps in today's "identity politics." Diagnosed with ADHD in childhood, he channeled his energy into creative pursuits like drawing and poetry, developing a unique perspective that later enriched his personal and professional life.   Meeting his wife in medical school, Dr. Arenson's relationship blossomed from her initial academic encouragement into a deep admiration for her roles as a wife and mother. This experience shaped his views on gender roles, inspiring him to advocate for the joys and magic of enduring love and marriage.   An award-winning teacher and dual specialist in Endocrinology and Geriatric Medicine, Dr. Arenson is passionate about teaching relationship management as a key to happiness. His career, marked by significant roles in medical leadership, has been a journey in learning about humility, humanity, and the pursuit of happiness.   In his free time, Dr. Arenson enjoys family time, tennis, fitness, stand-up comedy, and finding creative ways to balance work and leisure.  Dr. Arenson discusses his book "Women are Superior to Men." Being inspired by observing common relationship conflicts The importance of understanding relationship dynamics  Why partners need to give each other attention to maintain intimacy  The challenges modern parents face in balancing children's needs  How hormones play a lesser role in libido than factors like relationship quality  Understanding biological and emotional differences between men and women   Stress Management Toolkit https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in  Afternoon Delight Event https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoon-delight-a-live-podcast-experience-tickets-767718646137?aff=oddtdtcreator&fbclid=PAAaa4MHRYpHP__3FcrH5G8G1qoLafa6qm3FjHyTUo7y4YM1gb52iTz8Kezwg_aem_AY0LrKeHQTwVeCxZyS0OsxFNMf_Os87_jee5qNlmIVMC6-IEgyPrcWsQRm59i6iilH8    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

3 Jan 202442min

Welcome to episode 366 of Sexology Podcast! Today we're delving into New Year's resolutions and their impact on relationships. Our expert guests share tips to revitalize your connection, making 2024 a year of passion.  In this episode you will hear from Dr. Laurie Petito, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, David Khalili, Ken Page, Dr. Lonnie Barback, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Diane Gleim and Gigi Engle who share their insightful thoughts on new year's tips and resolutions for 2024 that include:  New Year's resolution tips on sexual health and advocacy Tips to simplify complex sexual health and relationship subjects Key skills for overall life satisfaction and improved relationships Effective communication tips for partners The importance of conversations in a relationship Understanding porn literacy Crucial skills often overlooked in relationships Stress management techniques  Stress Management Toolkit https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in   Afternoon Delight Event https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoon-delight-a-live-podcast-experience-tickets-767718646137?aff=oddtdtcreator&fbclid=PAAaa4MHRYpHP__3FcrH5G8G1qoLafa6qm3FjHyTUo7y4YM1gb52iTz8Kezwg_aem_AY0LrKeHQTwVeCxZyS0OsxFNMf_Os87_jee5qNlmIVMC6-IEgyPrcWsQRm59i6iilH8    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

26 Des 202321min