If the Breakup Hurts Too Much, Listen to This

Worried that sleeping with someone will change the way they feel about you?In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest sources of anxiety in dating: when to have sex, how to bring up the conversation...

10 Jul 18min

If you've ever felt like you're running out of time to find love, you're not alone.It's easy to look around and feel like everyone else is moving forward while you're standing still. That pressure can...

3 Jul 15min

Have you ever convinced yourself that one dating mistake cost you someone who could have been really special?Maybe you replayed the texts. The conversation. The moment you wish you could take back. An...

29 Jun 16min

One of the hardest things about people-pleasing is the fear of what might happen if you stop.What if someone gets upset? What if they pull away? What if the relationship changes?In this episode, Matth...

26 Jun 16min

More and more people are saying the same thing: they're tired of the apps and want to meet someone in real life. The problem is that after years of outsourcing the earliest stages of dating to our pho...

22 Jun 17min

One of the biggest misconceptions about family estrangement is that people do it lightly. They don't. And for many, the reality is far more painful…The truth is, most people don't create distance beca...

15 Jun 14min

For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy, I would write the same message: Never settle.I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a relationship that doesn't make ...

12 Jun 23min

Most people spend years trying to change their lives by making dramatic, big moves. Yet even after those big moves, they find themselves facing the same frustrations, the same fears, and the same emot...

8 Jun 19min