Becoming Me - The School Years

Becoming Me - The School Years

Are you getting in your child’s way?

Should you praise effort or results?

And are you strict enough with enforcing your own rules?


In today’s episode, I’m expanding on a recent episode (linked below), where we explored how your children build their sense of self, to answer the above questions and more.


I’m going to give you the five areas where I believe you can really help your children navigate their most critical stage of identity development. This usually happens around 7-8 years old, but every child is different, so no matter where you are in your parenting journey, this episode will definitely help you.


So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…



Mentioned in this episode:

Becoming Me: How Your Children Develop Their Sense of Identity



Highlights from this episode:

01:28 - Ages 7 to 8 are critical

06:00 - The 8 stages of identity development

09:03 - Do what you say you will

13:28 - Are you getting in your child’s way?

19:17 - Manage your expectations

22:27 - The benefits of praising effort

28:35 - The world is NOT school

31:57 - Episode cheat sheet



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