How Not to Screw Up Your Kids10 Nov 2025

Bucket Emptying: 5 Parenting Lessons I Learnt from Mumsnet's Justine Roberts

Nobody is a perfect mum, and none of us know everything… not even the experts.

That’s why I found my recent chat with Justine Roberts, founder of Mumsnet, so fascinating. She shared her own insights as a founder, an influencer to millions of parents, and a mum, and it blew my mind.

We covered everything from how to regulate our kids’ use of technology, to why there’s so much shame around weight loss drugs. It’s a conversation not to be missed!

That’s why, in today’s bucket emptying episode, I’m sharing the top five takeaways from that interview, and if you’re also interested in hearing more from Justine, listen to the full episode now - it’s just below this one in the podcast feed.

So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…

Mentioned in this Episode:

Listen to the full Justine Roberts interview: https://drmaryhan.com/episode/rage-against-the-screen-children-tech-social-media-with-mumsnet-founder-justine-roberts/

Mumsnet: https://www.mumsnet.com/

The Other phone: https://www.mumsnet.com/articles/the-other-phone

Highlights from this episode:

00:52 - Worry is a universal part of motherhood

02:39 - Community is crucial

04:54 - Power in numbers

07:37 - Technology & kids is a scary combo

10:11 - Taking the opportunity

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