Episode 23: Coming Back to Your Truth (And Why I've Been Gone for 6 Months) | The Unshakeable Self Podcast

After a 6-month hiatus, Seryna shares vulnerable truths about opening Golden Soul Sanctuary, community work, and what it really takes to stay aligned with your path.

In This Episode:

Sometimes our unshakeable self asks us to pause the things we love to create space for something even more aligned. After six months away, Seryna returns to share the truth about what happened during her "break" – opening a physical sanctuary, rediscovering the power of face-to-face connection, and learning that inspiration doesn't always look like we think it should. This episode is about honouring the seasons of your work, recognizing when the survival self is running the show (even in our most sacred projects), and trusting that your path is unfolding exactly as it needs to.

What You'll Discover:

• Why the "New Year, New You" energy might be keeping you stuck in old survival patterns instead of helping you grow
• The survival self pattern of needing external validation to feel worthy (and how it shows up even in heart-centred work)
• How being in community and receiving real-time feedback can nourish parts of us that online work can't reach
• The practice of setting 13 intentions at Solstice and letting the divine choose which one is yours to carry
• Why exhaustion and inspiration can coexist when you're truly living your unshakeable truth

Episode Highlights:

00:32 - Welcome back: What really happened during the 6-month "break"

01:23 - The universal lessons hidden in personal journeys (yours, mine, ours)

03:36 - Why January 1st energy isn't about fresh starts – it's about continuation

12:51 - The survival self trap of needing feedback to know your work matters

14:42 - Witnessing vulnerability in circle: The unexpected gift of physical community

17:00 - Sneak peek: Bali writing retreat and finishing The Unshakeable Self book

About New Year Energy and Survival Self Patterns:

We've been conditioned to see January 1st as a magical reset button – a chance to become someone new, leave the old behind, start fresh. But what if that's actually a survival self strategy keeping us from the deeper truth? The survival self loves new beginnings because they feel safe. They're full of potential without the risk of actual follow-through. They let us imagine ourselves transformed without doing the uncomfortable work of transformation.

Your unshakeable self knows that growth isn't linear, that "new year, new you" is a myth, and that real change happens in the messy middle of sustained effort, not in the sparkle of January intentions. This episode explores what happens when we stop treating our lives like projects that need constant relaunching and instead recognize that we're already in the middle of our becoming.

Seryna also gets vulnerable about one of the survival self patterns that showed up in her own work: the need for external validation. When the podcast wasn't getting regular feedback, when the downloads felt inconsistent, the survival self whispered that maybe the work didn't matter. But opening Golden Soul Sanctuary and being face-to-face with people showed her something important – sometimes we need to change the container to remember why we do the work at all. Not because the podcast wasn't valuable, but because her soul was asking for something different: real-time connection, witnessing vulnerability, holding space in person.

This is what living as your unshakeable self actually looks like – messy, tired, inspired, uncertain, and deeply aligned all at once.

Resources Mentioned:

• Solstice Intention Ritual: Write 13 intentions, burn one each night from Solstice to New Year's Eve, discover your soul's assignment on January 1st
• Golden Soul Sanctuary monthly events: Heart Hive (women's circle), Angel Cafe, Cacao Sound Bath
• The Unshakeable Self book (in progress – first draft coming August 2025 at Bali writing retreat)
• Truth Seeker's Oracle book (based on survival self archetype pairings)
• Sacred Anger (previous book)

Continue Your Journey:

Deep Dive: Ready for transformational coaching? Apply to work with Seryna

Explore In-Person: Energy healing, angel readings, and spiritual guidance at Golden Soul Sanctuary in Nanaimo, BC Canada

Join Community: Monthly gatherings and events for local seekers

Connect: Follow Seryna on Instagram @serynamyers for inspiration, behind-the-scenes moments, and daily tools for stepping into your power

TAGS: unshakeable self, survival self, new year intentions, external validation, spiritual growth, community healing, shadow work, personal transformation, spiritual podcast, soul alignment