#157 - Social Media Don'ts

🎙️ The Social Media Strategy Podcast — “What Not to Do on Social Media”

Episode Summary:
In this energetic and laughter-filled episode, Helen (aka The Muthership) records just before jetting off to Greece! 🌍✈️ She dives into a passionate and practical list of “what not to do” on social media — straight from her creator heart and years of experience coaching others through content strategy. From avoiding loud music and over-edited videos to skipping that “Hi guys!” intro, this episode is full of teachable (and hilarious) moments for creators of all levels.

🏖️ Opening: Batch Creating Before Greece

Helen kicks things off with excitement — by the time you’re hearing this, she’s in Athens beginning a 12-day Greek Islands adventure! She’s prepped tons of tutorials ahead of time thanks to batch creating, the current theme inside Socialize Studio. This month’s studio sessions are focused on planning smarter, not harder, and next week’s session will even be led by her daughter Juli, who’s a pro at analytics and content strategy.

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💄 Unsponsored By: BeautyStat Skincare

This week’s Unsponsored By segment spotlights a brand Helen genuinely loves — BeautyStat, founded by cosmetic chemist Ron Robinson (@roncosmeticchemist on Tiktok) From the balancing cleanser to the wrinkle-relaxing moisturizer and new vitamin C lip serum (with that perfect citrus scent 🍊), Helen gushes about how much she loves the ingredients, packaging, and lightweight travel-friendly design — all coming with her to Greece.
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🚫 Main Topic: What Not to Do on Social Media

Helen’s “rant-with-love” list of creator don’ts is equal parts practical and relatable. Here are the highlights:

1. Don’t start your videos with “Hi!”
   You’re losing viewers before you even start. Grab attention right away instead.
2. Don’t make your music too loud.
   Lower your background audio — especially if it has lyrics. Your audience wants to hear you.
3. Don’t complain about your views.
   Appreciate the people who did show up — it’s like throwing a party and complaining about who didn’t come!
4. Don’t speed up your speaking videos.
   Viewers can adjust playback speed themselves. Stay natural; just trim your cuts instead.
5. Don’t post reaction videos in anger.
   Take a breath. Not every negative comment deserves airtime — protect your energy and your vibe.
6. Don’t spam-like to show support.
   Watch, comment thoughtfully, and engage authentically. Quality > quantity.
7. Don’t DM your followers asking them to engage.
   It’s uncomfortable and counterproductive. Let your content earn the engagement organically.
8. Don’t believe every “here’s how to go viral” guru.
   Engagement hacks don’t equal authenticity. Think critically and do what fits your brand.

💡 Key Takeaway

This episode is a reminder that good content isn’t just about what you do — it’s about what you avoid doing. Each of these tips helps creators build genuine connection and credibility without falling into common traps.