68. An Essential Ingredient for Family Culture - The High Challenge and High Support Matrix

As parents, it can be hard to tell when we should challenge our kids to grow or give them more support. If you challenge them too much, they could distance themselves, but if you give too much support, they may never have taken the chance to do something they love.

So, how do we find that balance?

Welcome back to another Family Brand podcast, today we talk about finding that challenge and support balance with your family. Join us as we talk about the tool that helps businesses create a culture of high challenge and high support within their companies. We've found that this matrix isn't just for businesses wanting to up their game, it's actually an amazing tool that can help you propel your kids to be the best version of themselves.

Listen in as we talk about what it looks like to create a culture of high challenge and high support within your own family. Learn how you can assess yourself right now and the opportunities we've used to upgrade our own understanding of challenge and support. You'll hear stories of when high challenge and high support created lasting memories for our kids, the importance of committing to not just challenging but supporting others in the way they need, and the most powerful tool you have to challenge and support your family.

It's not always going to be easy but we've found that it's amazing to see what our kids are capable of! To find more on the high challenge and high support matrix or to connect with us on Instagram, check out the links below!

More Of What's Inside:

• How to create a culture of opportunity
• Being committed to challenge and support
• Using the matrix to empower your family
• Finding the balance between challenge and support
• How your family values are your most powerful tool
• More challenging vs. more supportive
• The question we ask our kids during a challenge
• How your differences complement each other
• The power of observation
• Overcoming limiting beliefs
• And much more!

LINKS:

• Support and Challenge Matrix: https://aaronlee.co/support-or-challenge/

Website:

• familybrand.com

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• Facebook: www.facebook.com/FamilyBrandOfficial
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Free course:

• familybrand.com/10steps

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 0:02 - What we cover today!
• 0:53 - Challenge and support
• 3:55 - The quadrants of the support challenge matrix
• 9:02 - Meeting them where they're at
• 12:50 - An example of high challenge and high support
• 17:46 - Knowing when to push
• 19:43 - Using this model in business
• 23:30 - Asking to challenge someone
• 25:21 - Supporting with your family values
• 27:45 - Closing thoughts