when your bestie becomes a stranger - social circles & types of friendship

youtube episode: https://youtu.be/DhFmgfKp73Q?si=D7aWmgHwrbQueGq3

outlining some ideas around different types of connection and social circles - this is just a starting point and i actually found out about aristotle's 'types of friendship' (pleasure, utility, virtue) after filming this video and there's a lot of parallels between what is discussed in the video, so i would say its kind of like an expansion pack to his original idea. i think even though being social is inherent to human nature, there are so many factors that can complicate how we relate to ourselves and others, it doesn't hurt to take the time to reflect on our friendships and relationships generally so that we can ensure we are showing up with intention and authenticity! please share your thoughts and experiences too so we can continue the conversation!!

03:08 - being hot & having fun revision

04:47 - give yourself time to grow and evolve

05:50 - categories of friendship/connection

08:18 - social circles

09:17 - your relationship with yourself

10:37 - social circles

11:14 - inner circle

11:43 - acquaintance circle

11:56 - balancing online and offline relationships

13:27 - beware of performative values

14:29 - realistic pacing

14:46 - adjusting focus

15:45 - moving between circles

16:38 - don’t take change personally

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