470. How to End Comparison and Competition for Good - Psychology tools that work

470. How to End Comparison and Competition for Good - Psychology tools that work

Why do you keep comparing yourself to everyone else, even people you love? Why does competition creep into friendships, relationships, work, and social media… even when you know it’s making you feel worse? In this episode, I break down the psychology of comparison and competition. Why your brain gets stuck in it, why some situations trigger you more than others, and how to end the comparison cycle permanently, not just “manage” it. We talk about: Why comparison isn’t the problem, loss of self-trust is How triggers reveal where you’ve outsourced your worth The difference between healthy ambition and toxic competition Why comparing yourself to friends and siblings hurts the most How social media intensifies insecurity without you realising The psychology behind competing for validation, attention, and approval How to stop competing in friendships, dating, and everyday life The mindset shift that makes comparison lose its power for good This episode is for anyone who feels behind, constantly measures themselves against others, or is exhausted by the quiet mental competition they can’t seem to turn off. If comparison is draining your confidence, affecting your relationships, or keeping you stuck, this episode will help you understand why it happens and exactly how to step out of it for good. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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487. What to know when entering your 30's Part 2

487. What to know when entering your 30's Part 2

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22 Mar 38min

486.  Should I mix friendship with career and toxic mother what will she do next?! (Headnoise)

486. Should I mix friendship with career and toxic mother what will she do next?! (Headnoise)

If you would like to send in a question email please email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@dyfmpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ dyfmpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join th...

19 Mar 27min

485. Parents struggling to accept me coming out and how many chances should I give my best friend. Headnoise

485. Parents struggling to accept me coming out and how many chances should I give my best friend. Headnoise

If you would like to send in a question email please email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@dyfmpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ dyfmpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

17 Mar 36min

484. Entering your 30s with the right mindset

484. Entering your 30s with the right mindset

Today's episode is one of my most requested topics, entering your 30's! Join the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Group  Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@doyoufking...

15 Mar 42min

483. Being alone vs staying in a group that doesn't align and my partner gives me the silent treatment and I can't handle it anymore  (Headnoise)

483. Being alone vs staying in a group that doesn't align and my partner gives me the silent treatment and I can't handle it anymore (Headnoise)

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12 Mar 27min

482. Moving past retroactive jealousy, and how to come to terms with leaving my home country for good?

482. Moving past retroactive jealousy, and how to come to terms with leaving my home country for good?

Bonjour! Welcome to Head Noise day. Today I cover 2 different questions, one about really trusting your partner when you know they have cheated in the past (not on you, but with you), and how to c...

10 Mar 24min

481. The Neuroscience of  Self Control

481. The Neuroscience of Self Control

Why do we have incredible self-control in some areas of life… and absolutely none in others? In this neuroscience episode, we break down what self-control actually is in the brain, and why it can dis...

8 Mar 44min

480. My sister is overbearing, and how do I know for sure I have chosen the right path?

480. My sister is overbearing, and how do I know for sure I have chosen the right path?

Bonjour! On this headnoise episode I answer three of your questions. I cover: How to deal with an overbearing sister who tries to act like a second parent and belittle constantly. How to know...

4 Mar 32min

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