Seeing Other People24 Sep 2024

Are They Avoidant or An Asshole? with Ken Reid

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network.

Work with Ken's team at kenreidcounselling.com.au

01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling

04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners

09:55 Attachment Styles Overview

19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners

22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners

25:06 Doing the Inner Work

30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment

31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team

33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments

34:22 Finding Problems with Partners

39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships

47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds

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