How I Became Your Mother6 Aug 2025

Cringe is Tea

Okay, let’s get into it — welcome to Episode 11 and the official debut of my new segment: Father Update 👀💅🏽 Because y’all keep asking and I promised to be honest. I’m sharing where I’m at on the dating journey, what I’m learning, and the soft, sometimes spicy steps I’m taking to become a match for the love I desire.

But the real heart of this episode? A celebration of the cringe. The brave, messy, slightly embarrassing things we do when we’re finally letting ourselves be seen. I’m talking about voice notes that make you want to disappear, flirting that falls flat, reels that feel too honest, truths you weren’t quite ready to tell — and why every single one of those moments is sacred.

Cringe is not failure. It’s evidence that you're trying. That you’re alive. That you care.

I’ll walk you through the memories that taught me this — the ones that made me squirm and the ones that made me proud — and what self-devotion looks like when you’re willing to risk being misunderstood in order to be real.

So if you’ve been waiting until you’re polished or perfect to share your art, ask for what you want, or open your heart — this one’s your permission slip.

And hey boo… if something in this episode made you feel seen, go ahead and leave me a review. I’m building this world with you.

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