Your 'Type' Is Keeping You Single | Matt Monday

Your 'Type' Is Keeping You Single | Matt Monday

Unfortunately, a lot of people are actually really bad at predicting what will make them happy long term.


When it comes to dating, many people get stuck on a rigid “type” which is usually a checklist of traits they think their partner must have. But interestingly, research shows that while most people have a long list of qualities they want, they often end up perfectly happy with someone who only matches a few of them.


So how do you figure out what will actually make you happy in a relationship?


And how do you evaluate that when dating apps mostly let you filter by superficial traits like height, looks, or career?


If you’ve ever wondered about this (or you know someone struggling in the dating world right now) listen to it now, and share it with a friend who's struggling in dating right now.


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