Your 'Type' Is Keeping You Single | Matt Monday

Your 'Type' Is Keeping You Single | Matt Monday

Unfortunately, a lot of people are actually really bad at predicting what will make them happy long term.


When it comes to dating, many people get stuck on a rigid “type” which is usually a checklist of traits they think their partner must have. But interestingly, research shows that while most people have a long list of qualities they want, they often end up perfectly happy with someone who only matches a few of them.


So how do you figure out what will actually make you happy in a relationship?


And how do you evaluate that when dating apps mostly let you filter by superficial traits like height, looks, or career?


If you’ve ever wondered about this (or you know someone struggling in the dating world right now) listen to it now, and share it with a friend who's struggling in dating right now.


---


►► Watch My Free Masterclass: How To Heal From Heartbreak


8 Proven Steps to Release the Past, Rebuild Your Confidence, and Thrive in Your Next Chapter: Heartbreakplan.com

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episoder(956)

What’s Really Behind Your Booty Call?

What’s Really Behind Your Booty Call?

Should you be ashamed of The Booty Call? If you’re just having fun, and you’re really ok with a casual fling, then I say, go for it. The problem is, there’s often more going on behind this so-called “...

23 Jan 20175min

This is a Really Gross Question, But You Can Learn From It

This is a Really Gross Question, But You Can Learn From It

As someone who gives love advice for a living, I’ve heard it all. Or so I thought… until I got this insane email question from a listener. Now let me clarify that the question is gross not in a raunch...

20 Jan 20174min

It Should Take Exactly THIS Long to Get Over Your Ex

It Should Take Exactly THIS Long to Get Over Your Ex

Ok, here’s the formula to calculate the time it should take to get over your breakup: Grab a pen. I’ll wait…OK, now add the number of months you were together, and divide it by the number of fights yo...

18 Jan 20175min

Why “Be Yourself” is Awful Advice

Why “Be Yourself” is Awful Advice

“Be yourself.” To most people, this means, “you’re perfect, just as you are.” (Or, at worst, it’s considered a harmless cliché.)  But I believe this is awful advice, and in today’s LOVE Life I’m going...

16 Jan 20174min

Is Passion Overrated?

Is Passion Overrated?

“There’s so much PASSION with this new guy I’m dating! We can’t keep our hands off of each other!” “I just want a job I can feel PASSIONATE about…” People throw around the “P” word every day, and it c...

13 Jan 20174min

A Totally Counter-Intuitive Mind Hack to Get More Done

A Totally Counter-Intuitive Mind Hack to Get More Done

Ok, you’ve got a million things to do today, and you’re not going to rest until you get it all done. So you work and you grind and you keep checking off your list until…you just hit a wall. You’re out...

11 Jan 20175min

The Power of Keeping a Promise

The Power of Keeping a Promise

“Can you make it to my birthday tonight,” asks your friend who’s planned an annoyingly hipster “drinks thing” in a totally inconvenient neighborhood, starting at 11pm on a rainy Friday night when you’...

9 Jan 20176min

Don’t “Drunkenly” Follow Your Dreams

Don’t “Drunkenly” Follow Your Dreams

I strongly believe we all have the power to create incredible lives. I even designed a 5-day Retreat process that helps thousands of women around the world, twice a year, do it in a radical way. So wh...

6 Jan 20175min

Populært innen Fakta

mikkels-paskenotter
fastlegen
dine-penger-pengeradet
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
foreldreradet
rss-strid-de-norske-borgerkrigene
treningspodden
jakt-og-fiskepodden
sinnsyn
rss-kunsten-a-leve
hverdagspsyken
gravid-uke-for-uke
rss-kull
fryktlos
hagespiren-podcast
rss-var-forste-kaffe
rss-bisarr-historie
level-up-med-anniken-binz
hva-er-greia-med
rss-impressions-2