WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.

Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction

01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom

03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings

04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space

06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship

06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship

07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him

11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him

12:57 Men and women do things differently

13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband

16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach

21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself

32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict

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