You're not mean enough

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Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, and we can only be liked by doing things for others.

Not only does this set you up for failure, it also makes people much less likely to respect you.

Sure, everyone likes the nice girl because they can use her, but no one respects her. And chances are, you're not mean enough.

In this episode, I’ll discuss:

• How to earn the respect you deserve
• What it means to be mean
• How to take a page out of mens' book (after we unstick the pages)
• 3 mindset shifts to break free from the nice girl conditioning
• An example of a spicy personal incident & what the baddies can learn from it
• Also what I learned from watching Jersey Shore

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

2:13 The dangers of "nice girl" grooming

8:04 Niceness vs kindness

15:27 How to be mean & gain respect

29:00 Three mindsets every self-respecting woman needs

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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