Anger Management: Practical Tools to Control Anger29 Mar

74 - Why Anger Keeps Destroying Your Relationship (And How to Stop It)

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Anger in a relationship doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship. But without the right tools, the same arguments keep happening, the same damage keeps building — and eventually, something breaks. In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares four practical things you can start doing this week to change the way anger shows up in your relationship.

In this solo episode, Alastair walks you through four key areas, from understanding your triggers to remembering you and your partner are on the same team, giving you a clear, actionable roadmap for lasting change.

Key Takeaways:

Understanding your anger triggers is the foundation. But without knowing what sets you off, those triggers run the show without you
Talking openly about issues before they build is the difference between a conversation and an explosion. A weekly relationship check-in is a simple tool that makes this possible
Stress and anger are directly linked. Managing your stress levels outside the relationship directly reduces conflict inside it
Most arguments feel like battles because we're trying to win. Shifting from "convince" to "understand" is where real resolution lives
Both people in a conflict have valid perspectives. Seeking to understand your partner's view almost always leads them to seek yours in return.

If anger has been damaging your relationship, this episode gives you four clear places to start, and the perspective to make them stick.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking the Anger Cycle

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

Denne episoden er hentet fra en åpen RSS-feed og er ikke publisert av Podme. Den kan derfor inneholde annonser.

Episoder(99)

100 - Is This Just Who I Am? 10 Stories That Prove You Can Control Your Anger.

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever found yourself thinking: "Maybe this is just who I am?". If you've tried to control your anger before and slipped back into old pa...

27 Sep 10min

99 - Do I Have an Anger Problem? 5 Questions to Help You Find Out

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever wondered "Do I have an anger problem?". You don't have to be shouting, throwing things or losing control for anger to be quietly d...

20 Sep 11min

98 - Three Things to Do Before Your Anger Takes Over

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever wondered why your anger seems to take over before you even realise what's happening? The truth is, there is a brief moment when yo...

13 Sep 10min

97 - "Don't Take It Personally" Is Useless Advice - Here's What Actually Works

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever been told "Don't take it personally"? It's advice almost everyone has heard - but almost nobody explains how to do it.The truth is...

6 Sep 12min

96 - His Daughter Sat Him Down at Christmas. Eighteen Months Later, Everything Had Changed.

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.One Christmas, Michael's daughter finally told him what decades of uncontrolled anger had done to their family. Eighteen months later, his life ...

30 Aug 17min

95 - 10 Rules to Control Your Anger for Good

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Most people think anger management is about calming down after they've already lost control. But if that's all you're focusing...

23 Aug 12min

94 - Why Couples Drift Apart (And the 6 Hours a Week That Can Change Everything)

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you started feeling more like housemates than partners?Most relationships don't fall apart because of one big event. They...

16 Aug 12min

93 - The Real Reason You Keep Having the Same Argument Again and Again

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Why do the same arguments keep happening over and over again?Whether it's your partner, your children, a colleague or even a s...

9 Aug 10min