#25 You are not alone: navigating post-holiday fatigue, grief and acceptance in chronic illness. Gez Medinger & Emily Kate Stephens

Welcome back to Make Visible.

For those living with chronic illness or invisible illness, the New Year rarely brings a “new you” — and that can be especially hard after the emotional and physical demands of the holiday season. If you’re navigating ME/CFS, Long Covid, Fibromyalgia, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), POTS, Chronic Lyme, or another energy-limiting condition, please know that you are not alone: Make Visible is back with new ideas, new guests, and a familiar line up of empathy, exploration and a little humour.

Journalist and host Emily Kate Stephens is joined once again by Gez Medinger, investigative science journalist, patient advocate, and co-author of The Long Covid Handbook, for an honest conversation about living with complex chronic illness, managing post-holiday overwhelm, and finding gentler ways forward.

Together, Emily Kate and Gez explore the emotional toll of the holidays with chronic illness — from expectations and guilt, to isolation and burnout — and share personal strategies that have helped them cope, regulate their nervous systems, and release stored stress and trauma.

In this episode, they discuss:

• EMDR therapy and Gez’s personal experience using it for Long Covid and trauma
• The importance of processing emotions
• Breathwork and nervous system regulation as tools for symptom support
• Finding acceptance, releasing comparison, and celebrating small wins

This conversation blends lived experience, practical tools, and emerging science, offering validation, reassurance, and hope to anyone navigating life with chronic illness.

Go gently into the New Year, good people. Share this with someone who needs to feel seen - together, we can make small differences.

Gez Medinger is an investigative science journalist, filmmaker, and Long Covid patient advocate. He is co-author of The Long Covid Handbook (with Prof. Danny Altmann) and the creator of a YouTube channel with over 7 million views, featuring interviews with world-leading clinicians. He has conducted over a dozen patient-led studies, and his work has been featured in The New York Times, New Scientist, and Men’s Health.

Gez previously joined Make Visible on Episode 21.

Emily Kate Stephens is a broadcast journalist and breathwork practitioner. As a television news producer when she became sick with Long Covid in 2020, she turned her expertise to interviewing the leading experts in infection-associated chronic conditions. She is passionate about sharing knowledge and revels in connecting the work of practitioners across multiple disciplines, and sharing her lived experience to support patients and deepen understanding.

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