Survivor of Animal R*pe

In today’s episode, a childhood sexual abuse survivor shares what it was like growing up in a home where sexual abuse, including abuse involving animals, was normalized, hidden, and never spoken about. She walks through the reality of grooming, manipulation, and fear, and how those dynamics made it nearly impossible to speak up, even when they knew something was wrong. She opens up about the impact on their relationships, their sense of safety, and the long journey of processing shame, seeking therapy, and eventually finding the courage to share their story publicly. This conversation also explores why so many survivors don’t report, what the legal process actually looks like, and how healing and advocacy can coexist. Sponsored By: → Biologica | Head to https://biologica.com/INSANE to get started and get up to 32% off your first subscription order today! Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you. Check Out Jada: Tik Tok: @jadasadvocacy https://www.tiktok.com/@jadasadvocacy IG: jadasadvocacy https://www.instagram.com/jadasadvocacy/ On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:02:14 - What are fawning and flopping as trauma responses? → 00:04:39 - Did her parents allow her to hang out with friends, and were there good times in her childhood? → 00:06:16 - What were the specifics of the abuse, and what happened in court? → 00:07:58 - What are the misconceptions and minimization around bestiality and sexual abuse? → 00:12:43 - How do premeditation and grooming play a role in abuse? → 00:14:12 - Did the abuse happen to everyone in the household? → 00:15:28 - What was her mother and stepfather’s relationship like? → 00:16:45 - Did she confide in friends or share what was happening at home during school? → 00:19:42 - Did the larger community have any idea what was going on? → 00:22:29 - Who did she tell at age 14, and how did her first love play a role? → 00:25:58 - What caused the turmoil with her sister? → 00:27:26 - What happened when her sister found out? → 00:29:59 - How did her mother’s abuse reflect generational trauma? → 00:33:31 - What was her relationship like with her biological father and grandmother? → 00:38:24 - Why is it so hard to report abuse, even when you want to? → 00:41:12 - What happens when you file a police report for abuse? → 00:43:51 - What does it mean to not feel ready to report abuse? → 00:53:01 - What was her experience starting therapy and wanting her feelings acknowledged? → 00:58:42 - Why did she stop therapy and choose to share her story online? → 01:01:51 - What is the difference between intent and impact, especially with demeaning jokes? → 01:10:23 - What happened when she reposted her story and shared it with family on Facebook? → 01:15:01 - How did she resist fear and intimidation from her stepdad? → 01:19:13 - Why don’t many survivors report abuse? → 01:28:09 - What legal changes have happened around child abuse, and when? → 01:32:24 - What is the process of going to court, especially more than once? → 01:34:46 - What does the investigation process look like? → 01:38:46 - What happened with abuse from others and illegal photos? → 01:46:31 - What were the family dynamics like with her mother and uncle? → 01:51:55 - What did her healing journey look like, especially within marriage? → 01:56:45 - Why do people repeat cycles of abuse? → 02:00:16 - Why is it hard to navigate relationships after complex trauma? → 02:04:03 - How do you process shame and step into advocacy? More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts Further Listening: → My Dad and Brother are R*pists Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices