You Slept with Him… Now What? Is He Serious or Just Hooking Up? How to Tell What He Really Wants | Stephan Speaks (Fan Fav)
Women of Impact26 Okt 2025

You Slept with Him… Now What? Is He Serious or Just Hooking Up? How to Tell What He Really Wants | Stephan Speaks (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Does hooking up on the first night make a woman confident or does it make her promiscuous? We wish there was a straightforward way to answer this, but the reality is there are too many variables to say. Men may not think about sex on the first date as the worst thing or the only thing they want from you.

Stephan Speaks, the relationship guru with 79 million views and several bestsellers, has been bridging the communication gap between men and women looking for healthier relationships, makes it clear that whether you sleep with him on the first date on not, there are some key things you should be doing and paying attention to that will help you decide with confidence.

Given the pressure we all face in dating, seeing how men think about sex on that first date can make dating less stressful and more enjoyable. Stephan's biggest recommendations are keeping the first date simple and not being afraid to ask questions.

You will never scare off the right person by asking questions, and giving someone the opportunity and permission to reveal their intentions is key to beginning a great relationship. You don’t have to be upset or mad if his intentions aren’t aligned. You can use the opportunity to move on quicker and spare yourself the heartache.


Original air date: 11-30-2022


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