"I work with Psychopaths"- This is What They Tell Me About How They Target Women | Aishia Grevenberg PT 1

If you've ever second-guessed yourself around a charming dude, felt your boundaries melting as soon as someone smiles just right, or wondered “how do I spot manipulators and protect myself?”—this is the episode you NEED. I sat down with Aishia Grevenberg, a phenomenal therapist, survivor and absolute badass, to peel back the curtain on narcissists, psychopaths, manipulators, and all the ways they scan for vulnerability and test your boundaries.

Aishia dives DEEP into life lessons from working with men in prisons, recognizing warning signs from the first interaction, and what she learned from surviving her own abusive relationship. We tackle the real science behind manipulation, why simply “being yourself” is actually your superpower, and why emotional responses are every abuser’s favorite tool. All the secrets these guys DON’T want you to know? She gives it to you raw, from the inside. If you want to understand predators, feel secure in your space, and finally stop second-guessing your gut, part one gives you everything you need.

SHOWNOTES

Manipulators & Narcissists: Why They Don’t Have a Type

Life Lessons from Las Vegas Jail: How To Assert Your Power No Matter How Scared You Feel

Boundary Testing: If You Budge, They Got You

What Vulnerability Looks Like to a Predator

Presenting Your Best Self? Why That’s Actually Risky

Emotional Manipulation Is Always Intentional

FBI-Level Mirroring Tactics: How Predators Manufacture Intimacy

Real-Life Story: How Kids Spot Your Weakness

Consistency Is Your Armor

Wanting the Fantasy vs. Owning Reality

The “Change Him” Myth: R&B, Love Songs & Losing Yourself

Your Responsibility: Keeping Yourself Safe

When Abuse Includes Pets—Cats, Shelters, and What Really Keeps Women Trapped

Toxic Therapy: Danger Lurking in Couples Counseling

Mental Gymnastics—Linguistic Jenga & Minimizing Abuse

Why Leaving Means Losing Everything—The Hardest Part

Getting Up, Getting Involved—Old Lady Bonnet Energy

Why “Help” Isn’t Enough—The Secret Power In Community

Strangulation: Why It’s The Most Deadly “Gesture”

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