The Dark Side of Modern Relationships: Spyware, Tracking, and Control | Alan Silberberg

Is your partner tracking you without your knowledge?

In this episode of lovelustlaw, family law attorney and host Michele Locke sits down with cybersecurity and reputation-management expert Alan W. Silberberg of DigiJaks to explore the growing intersection of technology, privacy, and modern relationships.

From digital stalking and spyware to online harassment and reputation attacks, Alan explains how everyday devices, including AirPods, smartphones, smart cars, and connected home technology, can be used to monitor, track, or gather information about unsuspecting individuals. The conversation examines common surveillance tactics, including malicious links, shared account access, Bluetooth and NFC-based threats, and deceptive techniques such as “evil twin” Wi-Fi networks.

Michele and Alan also discuss practical steps listeners can take to protect themselves, including strengthening privacy settings, reviewing app permissions, disabling unused device features, and enabling two-factor authentication. Beyond personal security, they explore the challenges law enforcement and courts face when handling technology-driven cases, the rise of malware marketplaces and organized cybercrime, and the increasing role of AI in shaping online information and reputation.

Key topics covered:

• Cyberstalking and digital surveillance
• AirTags, AirPods, and “Find My” tracking concerns
• Spyware, phishing links, and account compromise
• Bluetooth, NFC, and proximity-based threats
• Evil twin Wi-Fi networks and cybercriminal tactics
• Smart cars, connected devices, and privacy risks
• Digital forensics and reputation management
• Law enforcement and courtroom challenges in cyber cases
• AI-generated search results and online reputation
• Practical cybersecurity and privacy best practices

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