S4E4 - Understanding How Porn is Affecting Your Family with Beth Fischer

Believe it or not, porn infiltrates the intimacy of marriage and opens the door to betrayal. That’s where Beth comes in! Beth Fischer is a betrayal trauma specialist with a Master's degree in counseling. She is certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and is a practitioner at the PBT Institute. She has authored an ebook, has online self-guided courses, and coaches betrayed wives in group and individual settings. With her professional background and her journey through betrayal, she is a highly sought-after betrayal trauma coach.

Whether you are a woman looking for help or a man seeking support, you need to tune into Beth’s story to understand how porn is affecting your family.

[00:01 - 06:30] How Porn Opens the Door to Betrayal
I introduce today’s returning guest, Beth Fischer
Today’s topic - Betrayal recovery
Beth takes some time to explain her own story of betrayal
Identifying the red flags

[06:31 - 15:45] Understanding How Porn is Affecting Your Family
Removing the myth that there are healthy uses to porn
Porn is the gateway drug to infidelity
Too many women fall for the trap of thinking it’s normal
You need to set up boundaries
The reality of the male brain - we are getting hijacked

[15:46 - 26:00] D-Day and the Journey to Recovery
Beth talks about finding out about the betrayal
Seeing the red flags
What happens during D-Day, Discovery Day
The journey to uncovering the truth
The journey to recovery

[26:01 - 32:07] That’s a Wrap!
Beth’s words to people who are thinking of or are cheating
Beth’s empowerment to the women dealing with betrayal
Understanding the chemical cocktail of dealing with addiction
The road to recovery is therapy, support, and education
How to reach out to beth - links below
“The reason for living is for having great relationships, to have people you love and respect and who love and respect you.” - Brian Tracey


Key Quotes:

“If there’s something you’re not comfortable with as a wife… you’ve got a right to put a boundary in place to say, ‘No, I don’t want this in my world.’” - Beth Fischer

“My big mistake was, there’s no way that I was going to fix him. That’s what kept me stuck until we got to the point where I figured out he has to fix himself.”- Beth Fischer

“The cheating husband; he’s going to have to work through it. He’s going to have to detox just like he would with any other drug.” - Beth Fischer

Resources Mentioned:
https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051
Book a call with Beth

Connect with Beth’s work over on https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/ - healing done together.

If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going!

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