Ep. 41 - Timing Self-Care to Avoid Burnout with Alyssa Wolff

In this episode of De-Stress The Nest, host Hannah Morgan sits down with Alyssa Wolff—homeschooling mom of five— who shares her practical and refreshing approach to self-care for working parents. She introduces the idea of prioritizing personal time before the second shift begins, offering realistic ways to build quiet, restorative rhythms into your day—no matter your children’s ages or your work schedule.

Key Takeaways

• Take your primary self-care break before transitioning into the evening caregiving “second shift.”

• Use nap or quiet time intentionally, not for chores or productivity, but to truly recharge.

• Brand quiet time as a treat for kids to foster independence and cooperation.

• Even working parents can carve out post-work recharge time by adjusting routines and meal prep.

• Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for being present and patient with your family.

Quotes

• “This is not time to clean the house. This is time to send everyone to their rooms—peace and quiet for everyone.”

• “If you don’t fill your cup before the second shift starts, you’re running on empty by bedtime.”

• “Quiet time isn’t punishment—it’s a privilege. You just have to brand it that way.”

Resources Mentioned

• Heron House Management — Support for working parents

• “The Second Shift” book by Arlie Hochschild

• Breathwork, meditation, and mindset practices (no specific tools named, but mentioned as part of Alyssa’s routine)

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