The Hidden Cost of Being Really Good at Your Job

What if the reason dating feels so hard has nothing to do with you doing the wrong things — and everything to do with you doing the right things in the wrong context?

In this episode, I break down the six ways that the skills that built your career are quietly working against you in love, and what it actually looks like to start shifting that. This is for the high-achievers— and for the people who love them.

In this episode:

Why dating apps were literally designed to activate your worst dating habits
The six professional skills that create distance in intimate relationships — and the compassionate reframe for each
A simple gut-check practice you can use immediately
How neuroplasticity makes this genuinely changeable — and what "real progress" actually looks like

Reflection question: "Which of the six patterns feels most familiar to you — and what do you think it's been costing you?"

Quiz: "Which Career Pattern Is Running My Love Life?"

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