Am I Going to Punish Myself—or Free Myself?

Am I Going to Punish Myself—or Free Myself?

The trigger is your winner.

Not your enemy.Your winner.

Because without something instigating a shock to your system --upsetting the apple cart of your normal patterns --you just stay stuck.

You're in a logjam.In one place.Forever.

So the trigger happens.All the old patterns come up.And then you step back for a second and go:

"Whoa. I felt that.That was old.Oh my goodness, I don't want to go there."

I'm not going into his vortex.

I'm the vortex.

I'm the center.

And after one or two times of the same exact thing coming at you --because the same trigger is going to come at you over and over again --you'll have a different choice.

Am I going to punish myself?

Or am I going to free myself?

It's always a choice in the moment.

Get out there and let yourself get triggered.Write everything down.

Talk to us.

Don't let it happen only in your imagination.Do it!

That's what Circular Dating is for.

Come practice this with us on Siren Island:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/

Love, Rori


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