Does He Make You Feel Bad - Or Is It Something You Don't Want to Look At?

So the question is, is that real? Does he make me feel bad, or is something happening inside me that I don't want to deal with?

Are there feelings coming up that I don't want to see, that I don't want to look at?

If you can't be angry at him without giving away your power, what are you supposed to be doing with that anger?

Stomp it out, scream it out, get it out.

Say: "I'm so angry. I feel so angry. "

Not: "you did that, and that made me feel angry."

Then you stand with him open, and that is the key.

You stand with anger inside of you, but completely open.

And if you think that that is the weakness, somebody has sold you a bill of goods.

You can hold the space for your man at the same time as being your strongest, most siren self.

Holding space is not a codependent thing.

That is you being able to fill this big space with your whole insides and your wants, your feelings, and your anger, and hold it all, but let it be open and exposed to this man.

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Love, Rori

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