360: How to Find Love: Be Love Instead of Look for Love, as taught by Jay Shetty

360: How to Find Love: Be Love Instead of Look for Love, as taught by Jay Shetty

"We think love has to be obtained, earned, achieved, and received. We look for it in the form of attention and compliments, and people acknowledging us. But actually the greatest way to experience love is to give it." —Jay Shetty, author of 8 Rules of Love: How to Find it, Keep it, and Let it Go

A simple formula to love is to be it and it appears. However, this seems either too simple for some of us or to not produce the 'type of love' we had in mind. Such thinking, to have a narrow definition of what love has to be in our lives to be fulfilled, or to refuse to let go and just be instead of chasing, demanding, swiping or requiring, is to get in our own way when it comes to living a life, every single day, full of love.

Because guess what? Such a life is possible, and it is part of what living simply luxuriously is all about. In fact, it is at the core, because as I will share today, it all comes down to finding peace with ourselves, embracing our true selves and engaging fully with the world without expectation. But again, we are being asked to do less, not more, to look inward so that we can engage lovingly outward as well as lovingly toward ourselves. We are being asked to be honest about what makes us feel loved and stop engaging in practices that result in anything but.

Visit the Show Notes on the blog The Simply Luxurious Life - https://thesimplyluxuriouslife.com/podcast360

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291: 6 Ways To Dance with Life (and Have An Amazing Experience)

291: 6 Ways To Dance with Life (and Have An Amazing Experience)

"Your inner purpose is to awaken." —Eckhart Tolle, from A New Earth To observe the seamless fluidity of a dancing pair with years of professional dancing experience float across the floor no matter ...

19 Okt 202035min

290: 10 Life Choices to Simplify & Welcome a Calm & Contented Everyday Life

290: 10 Life Choices to Simplify & Welcome a Calm & Contented Everyday Life

"Creating an environment in which you can have a greater sense of clarity and calm . . . The result is a mind that feels much calmer and clear." —Andy Puddicomb Having an abundance of choices is a v...

12 Okt 202026min

289: Anne Willan Talks About Women in the Kitchen

289: Anne Willan Talks About Women in the Kitchen

"The thread of all good cooking: the right ingredients, fresh and the way they should be - not fancy or expensive." —Anne Willan, author of Women in the Kitchen and founder of La Varenne Cooking Schoo...

5 Okt 202043min

288: Cultivating a New Normal

288: Cultivating a New Normal

The Atlantic recently posted an article asserting there won't be a clear end to the pandemic. Rather, the end for each of us will be as unique and differentiated as each one of us and occur on a diff...

21 Sep 202024min

287: 5 Things to Do to Build Healthy Relationships and 4 Things to Let Go

287: 5 Things to Do to Build Healthy Relationships and 4 Things to Let Go

"We are born with a capacity to dance together but not with the necessary training." —David Richo As soon as I read the first line in chapter one shown above, the analogy made crystal clear sense o...

14 Sep 202039min

286: How to Let Go of Comparison? Heal Thyself

286: How to Let Go of Comparison? Heal Thyself

"Comparison is the death of joy." ― Mark Twain The thief of joy, if Mark Twain is right, is of our own making. The good news in this revelation reveals each of us can take back our joy. Comparin...

7 Sep 202047min

Season 7 Schedule Announced!

Season 7 Schedule Announced!

In three weeks the seventh season of The Simple Sophisticate will begin. With 285 episodes already shared, I am excited to explore new books, welcome guests that speak to what living simply luxuriousl...

17 Aug 20209min

285: The New Parisienne author Lindsey Tramuta

285: The New Parisienne author Lindsey Tramuta

Author and blogger and American living in Paris Lindsey Tramuta joins me on podcast today to talk about her new book The New Parisienne: The Women & Ideas Shaping Paris (purchase on Bookshop.org). Hav...

10 Aug 20201h 4min

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