279. Decide You're the One: How to Get Over the Fear That You're Not Enough

You've been waiting to feel ready. Ready enough to launch the thing, shoot your shot, ask for the promotion you've been researching and figuring out the pitch for for months. Here's the hot take: you're stalling what you want because of the fear that you're not enough for it.

The fear of failure, of judgement, of "not enoughness" has driven your car for long enough.

So in this episode, I get a little messy and share my HOTTEST takes on exactly how to build the belief- and actions- of enoughness. Through a winding road of Matrix analogies and The Holiday references, you're going to realize in this episode that you are THE ONE.

The One who is the main character. Who can create the love, friendship, and work life that you desire

In the words of Mary Oliver, "What will you do with your one wild and precious life?"

That's what this episode is here to help you answer.

Get into it!

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