We Were Wrong About Secure Attachment & It's Ruining Our Relationships

We have more resources than ever before to become securely attached, but rates of secure attachment are DROPPING. Dr. Marisa G. Franco, professor of psychology, says it’s because we’re getting attachment theory all wrong. In this episode, Dr. Marisa G. Franco shares clear solutions so we can have better relationships with others, with ourselves, and feel better overall. 🎧 What you’ll learn: • Exactly how you can change your memories to be happier and more securely attached • What attachment style you are (and when it can change) • How attachment styles are formed and how to actively change them • The two types of "high self-esteem" and which one you want • A habit that signals insecurity, even when you think you're secure • What’s happening when getting the love or job you want doesn’t make you feel better longterm (and what actually will) If you like this episode, check out “The 40 BEST Health & Happiness Hacks I've Learned In 40 Years” episode: • Listen/Watch on Spotify • Listen on Apple • Watch on YouTube For more from Dr. Marisa G. Franco: • Her Book, Worth: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/784327/worth-by-marisa-g-franco-phd/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisagfranco/?hl=en • Website: https://drmarisagfranco.com/ Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. Buy our cute sweatshirts, conversation cards, and more at https://shop.lizmoody.com/. Use our discount codes from our  highly vetted and tested brand partners by visiting https://www.lizmoody.com/codes. To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors: • Wildgrain: go to Wildgrain.com/LizMoody (or use promo code LIZMOODY at checkout) to get $30 off your first box + FREE croissants for LIFE. • OneSkin: go to OneSkin.co/Liz and use code LIZ to get 15% OFF for a limited time. • IQBar: text LIZ to 64000 for 20% off. • Lumebox: right now get 40% off, that's $260 off the regular price of $629, when you go to TheLumeBox.com/Liz. • LMNT: head to DrinkLMNT.com/Liz to get a FREE 8-count sample pack with any order • Timeline: visit Timeline.com/Liz to save up to 39% off. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 466. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices