Episode 254: How Big is Too Big?

Your thoughts are very powerful, and there's nowhere that's more evident than in the lifestyle. We share how we sabotaged some of our own lifestyle fun in the past, and what work can be done from a me...

12 Okt 42min

A deep discussion on how our personal evolution has highlighted what we see as stagnation in the lifestyle. Plus, a very important question is dissected: Can't we just be polyamorous? Get a free month...

6 Okt 40min

We share VERY vulnerable thoughts on how our lifestyle journey was impacted by our two very different fitness levels for the first several years of us being enm. Plus we talk about some of the pitfall...

28 Sep 45min

We discuss a phenomenon we have noticed many times in the lifestyle: When the party becomes more important than ENM itself. And it has us questioning: Without the alcohol, the dance parties, and the t...

21 Sep 41min

We've recently become aware of a phenomenon happening at lifestyle events: men sharing their prescription medications with each other for recreational purposes. We discuss why it's happening, what the...

14 Sep 38min

A date night had our heads reeling about the concept of "changed standards." And that relates perfectly to a message we received from listeners about how to tell long-term play partners that they are ...

7 Sep 43min

We discuss what we would change about our lifestyle journey if we had a time machine and could go back 8 1/2 years... Spoiler alert, we have very different answers! Plus, a deep dive into what lifesty...

31 Aug 43min

We've all seen it in the lifestyle: The dreaded "steering wheel couple," where one half is SIGNIFICANTLY better put together than the other. And it has us wondering: Don't these people want more from ...

24 Aug 45min