E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions

Your husband creates AI videos of the two of you having sex. You're only having sex four times a year. Or you tried a new position once, hated it, and have absolutely no interest in giving it another shot. Is this normal?! We're back with another round of Is This Normal?, where we answer your real-life sex and relationship questions and get into all the things you've been wondering about. And this week's questions are giving us PLENTY to talk about. We're unpacking some pretty interesting bedroom situations and sharing our thoughts on what's worth exploring, what deserves a conversation, and why your version of normal doesn't have to look like anyone else's. In this episode, you'll hear: Is it normal for your husband to create AI images and videos of the two of you having sex? What it means if you're only having sex four times a year, and whether there's a magic number couples should aim for What to do when your partner says she enjoys sex, but you're not convinced Whether it's okay to take a position or sex act off the table after one bad experience How to talk about trying something again when one partner is curious and the other isn't interested Some of these questions might sound familiar. Others might have you thinking, "Wait, people do that?!" Either way, you're going to want to hear our answers. Press play, then ask your partner which question surprised them the most. Ready to discover your next favorite position? One meh experience doesn’t mean you have to write off trying new things. And you definitely don’t have to retry something you didn’t enjoy. If you’re curious about what else might feel good, Ultimate Sex Positions gives you 47 positions to explore together, with clear instructions that take the guesswork out of trying something new. Inside, you’ll get: 47 illustrated sex positions, so you can see exactly what goes where Step-by-step instructions for getting into and out of each position Tips for moving together and finding your rhythm, so you can discover what works for your bodies You might find a new favorite, rediscover an old one, or have a really good time experimenting together. Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here: http://vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices