Barbara Karnes

Due to the ongoing global pandemic, devastating natural disasters, contentious elections, and instances of heartbreaking violence and injustice, challenging times continue. To help you strengthen your resilience, we’re releasing this special episode which features all-new interviews with 4 previous guests of the show. The guests of this special episode are Ellen Bass, Parker Palmer, Spring Washam, and Ralph De La Rosa. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, We Discuss Resilience During Difficult Times and… How art can help us connect with our inner experience during challenging times Ellen Bass’ motto to cultivate resilience: “work more, worry less” That if we can get the step small enough, there’s always a positive step we can take to help The impact of taking care of ourselves on other people The importance of cultivating gratitude for small things When our hearts are broken open, they grow larger Learning to value small actions The motto: “if you can’t get out of it, get into it The importance of literally changing the channel to limit our intake of distressing news How to be in the world but not of the world Working with fear skillfully How mind and body parallel themselves Making time to allow, be with, and be in our emotions The importance of metabolizing and digesting our emotions How we’re designed to go through stress and bounce back Other Links: Ellen Bass Parker Palmer Spring Washam Ralph De La Rosa BLUBlox offers high-quality lenses that filter blue light, reduce glare, and combat the unhealthy effects of our digital life. Visit BluBlox.com and get free shipping worldwide and also 15% off with Promo Code: WOLF15 Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf  If you enjoyed this conversation on Resilience During Challenging Times, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Special Episode #1: How to Work from Home Special Episode #2: Strategies for Emotional Health Special Episode #3: How to Work with Anger Specia Episode #4: Tips for Living in Close Quarters See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Okt 20201h 5min

Dr. Shauna Shapiro is a professor, best-selling author, clinical psychologist, and internationally recognized expert in mindfulness and compassion. She has published over 150 journal articles and 3 critically acclaimed books translated into 16 languages. Her most recent book is called, Good Morning, I Love You: Mindfulness and Self Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy. In this episode, Eric and Shauna Shapiro talk about how we can cultivate transformative mindfulness through daily practices that nurture kindness and compassion towards ourselves. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Dr. Shauna Shapiro and I Discuss Transformative Mindfulness and… Her book, Good Morning, I Love You: Mindfulness and Self Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy How she first learned the idea that what you practice grows stronger Why your attitude and how you pay attention is so important when it comes to mindfulness 3 pillars of mindfulness What she learned from studying shame The effectiveness of self-compassion The ways mindfulness prepares the mind for learning The difference between mindfulness and meditation What your mood in the morning and your mood in the evening says about your longevity The question you can ask yourself in the morning to prime your mind to look for the good throughout the day The ways mindfulness can lose its transformative power Self-improvement vs Self-liberation How perfection is the antithesis of evolution The benefits of a regular meditation practice Her practice of “Good Morning, I Love You” Dr. Shauna Shapiro Links: drshaunashapiro.com Facebook Instagram Plushcare: Provides excellent primary and urgent healthcare through virtual appointments. It’s easy to book online and you can even get same-day appointments. They accept most major insurance carriers, are available in all 50 states and you get prescriptions sent to your local pharmacy. Go to www.plushcare.com/wolf Transparent Labs offer a variety of supplements and protein powders that include science-based ingredients and have no sugar, fat, lactose, artificial colors or sweeteners. Check out Eric’s favorite, 100% Grass-Fed Whey Isolate that comes in many delicious flavors. Visit transparentlabs.com and use Promo code WOLF to receive 10% off your order.  Talkspace is the online therapy company that lets you connect with a licensed therapist from anywhere at any time at a fraction of the cost of traditional therapy. It’s therapy on demand. Visit www.talkspace.com and enter Promo Code: WOLF to get $100 off your first month. If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Shauna Shapiro on Transformative Mindfulness, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Self Compassion with Kristin Neff Effortless Mindfulness with Loch Kelly The Heart of Awareness with Dorothy Hunt See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Okt 202049min

Dr. Ken Druck is a leading mental health expert in the areas of civility, relationships, and aging. Ken writes regularly for the national press and he is the author of several books including the one discussed in this episode, Raising an Aging Parent: Guidelines for Families in the Second Half of Life. In this episode, Eric and Dr. Ken Druck talk about caring for an aging parent, finding meaning after great loss, helping ourselves receive the love that’s offered to us, and how to live through the difficult nature of the difficult situations we will face in our lives.  But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Dr. Ken Druck and I Discuss Raising an Aging Parent, and… His book, Raising an Aging Parent: Guidelines for Families in the Second Half of Life Standing in the ashes of your “Plan A” in life The tragedy of the death of his daughter The choice to make your pain the central organizing principle of your life or choosing a life where purpose and meaning are the central organizing principles Our wholeness coming out of brokeness How aging is grieving the loss of our younger self and accepting yourself as you are today Living in a “both-and” rather than an “either-or” world That when we care for an aging parent, we’re giving life back to the parents that gave life to us Giving our parents the good things we have in our hearts to give as they face some of the biggest challenges of their lives The importance of being a healthy caregiver and not becoming a “slave caregiver” Figuring out what is “enough” as a caregiver Allowing ourselves to receive the love as our parents offer it, rather than waiting for the way we want it Figuring out what stands in the way of us receiving other people’s love, gratitude, and generosity Showing ourselves compassion in moments of difficult decisions The work and legacy of an aging parent Putting our house in order Dr. Ken Druck Links: kendruck.com Twitter Facebook Instagram Indeed: Helps you find high impact hires, faster, without any long term contracts and you pay only for what you need. Get started with a free $75 credit to boost your job post and get in front of more quality candidates by going to www.indeed.com/wolf Best Fiends: Engage your brain and play a game of puzzles with Best Fiends. Download for free on the Apple App Store or Google Play.   SimpliSafe: Get comprehensive protection for your entire home with security cameras, alarms, sensors as well as fire, water, and carbon monoxide alerts. Visit simplisafe.com/wolf for a free HD camera. If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Ken Druck on Raising an Aging Parent, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Alan Castel Kamla Kapur John Zeratsky See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Okt 202055min

Julia Cameron is an American teacher, author, artist, poet, playwright, novelist, filmmaker, and much more. She is best known for her book, “The Artist’s Way.“ In this episode, in addition to discussing her book, “The Artist’s Way,” Eric and Julia talk about finding your creativity and her famous practice known as “Morning Pages.” But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Julia Cameron and I Discuss Finding Your Creativity and… Her book, “The Artist’s Way“ Her many strategies for feeding her good wolf Creative recovery is the process of tracking back to our original selves Creativity as a spiritual practice “Morning Pages” is her daily practice of writing 3 pages longhand about anything that is on your mind first thing in the morning The importance of writing no more or no less than the 3 pages. Morning pages are aimed at moving out of inertia into action. Learning to write past our inner critic is how we train ourselves to move past fear Cloud thoughts are the thoughts that drift into your consciousness that are not connected to anything Morning pages are your tough love friend and are not meant to be reread Creativity can come from happiness as well as pain The reward for paying attention is a sense of well being that counters loneliness “Artist Dates” are expeditions out of your house that you find delightful or brings you joy The myth that artists are born and not made How perfectionism stands between you and your creativity The process of creativity is more important than the end product Moving past perfectionism with your morning pages Walking is another important creative tool  The secret doubt is our skeptical sense that a higher power isn’t interested in us. The voice of guidance is kind, intuitive, truthful, and supportive Julia Cameron Links: juliacameronlive.com Twitter Instagram Facebook Transparent Labs offer a variety of supplements and protein powders that include science-based ingredients and have no sugar, fat, lactose, artificial colors or sweeteners. Check out Eric’s favorite, 100% Grass Fed Whey Isolate that comes in many delicious flavors. Visit transparentlabs.com and use Promo code WOLF to receive 10% off your order. Plushcare: Provides excellent primary and urgent healthcare through virtual appointments. It’s easy to book online and you can even get same-day appointments. They accept most major insurance carriers, are available in all 50 states and you get prescriptions sent to your local pharmacy. Go to www.plushcare.com/wolf to start your free 30-day trial.   Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf If you enjoyed this conversation with Julia Cameron on the Finding Your Creativity, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Albert Flynn DeSilver Byron Katie See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Okt 202050min

James Kingsland is a science and medical journalist with 25 years of experience working for publications such as New Scientist, Nature, and, most recently, The Guardian. On his own blog, Plastic Brain, he writes about neuroscience and Buddhist psychology.  In this episode, Eric and James Kingsland discuss his book, Am I Dreaming: The Science of Altered States from Psychedelics to Virtual Reality and Beyond. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, James Kingsland and I Discuss the Neuroscience Behind Our Reality, and… His book, Am I Dreaming: The Science of Altered States from Psychedelics to Virtual Reality and Beyond What the best neuroscience tells us about how the brain works That we don’t see the world directly, objectively as it is Our experiential reality as a combination of what we expect to see and the feedback from what our senses are telling us is there Prediction Error Coding How the brain mainly pays attention when you surprise it That the Buddha discovered that we see a conditioned view of the world The types of things that go wrong in the brain Viewing mental illness and addiction through the prediction functionality of the brain How altered states can help when things go wrong in the brain Expanded the flexibility of the brain What happens in the brain during sleep and dreaming  His experience with hypnosis Active Inference James Kingsland Links: Plasticbrainblog.com Twitter BLUBlox offers high-quality lenses that filter blue light, reduce glare, and combat the unhealthy effects of our digital life. Visit BluBlox.com and get free shipping worldwide and also 15% off with Promo Code: WOLF Skillshare is an online learning community that helps you get better on your creative journey. They have thousands of inspiring classes for creative and curious people. Get 2 FREE months of premium membership at www.skillshare.com/feed If you enjoyed this conversation with James Kingsland on the Neuroscience Behind Our Reality, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Daniel Levitin Casey Schwartz Dr. Rick Hanson See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29 Sep 202049min

Dr. Judith Grisel is a professor of Psychology at Bucknell University. Judith is a behavioral neuroscientist with a particular interest in addiction. Her work includes trying to determine what is different about people who develop drug addictions before they ever try a drug.  In this episode, Judith and Eric discuss her book, “Never Enough: The Neuroscience and Experience of Addiction” where she shares her personal experience of overcoming addiction as well as her passion for research into the neuroscience of addiction. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Judith Grisel and I Discuss the Neuroscience of Addiction, and… Her book, Never Enough:  The Neuroscience and Experience of Addiction"   Channeling her strong will and enthusiasm for addiction into recovery  Focusing on what she wanted rather than what she didn't want The complexity of addiction is there are so many factors that lead to it Nature via nurture as well as the inherited risks of addiction The increased risk of teenagers with addictive disorders when using drugs or alcohol while the brain is still developing. The neural states associated with addiction also come from our history, culture, socialization, communication, and even microbiomes. The "debt of addiction is accrued when borrowing good feelings from the future is due" Mechanisms of what happens in the brain when abusing substances Tolerance is when the brain adapts and counteracts the effects of the drug Dependence is when you no longer like yourself without the drug Younger adults may be more prone to addiction, but also more resilient. Her experience of receiving tough love from her parents that ultimately led to recovery. How isolation causes addiction and addiction causes isolation Connection is crucial in the process of recovery Dr. Judith Grisel Links: Judy Grisel Ted Talk Plushcare: Provides excellent primary and urgent healthcare through virtual appointments. It’s easy to book online and you can even get same-day appointments. They accept most major insurance carriers, are available in all 50 states and you get prescriptions sent to your local pharmacy. Go to www.plushcare.com/wolf to start your free 30-day trial. Jordan Harbinger Show: One of Eric’s favorite podcasts, the Jordan Harbinger Show, is where self-motivated people, just like you, dig deep into the untapped wisdom of the world’s sharpest minds- from legendary creators to intelligence operatives, iconoclastic writers to visionary change-makers. You’ll learn new strategies, perspectives, and tactics you won’t find anywhere else, then take these valuable insights into your own life and live what you listen to. You can find it on Apple Podcasts or Spotify If you enjoyed this conversation with Judy Grisel on the Neuroscience of Addiction, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Dr. Gabor Mate’ Johann Hari Maia Szalavitz See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22 Sep 202050min

Brad Warner is an ordained Zen teacher and the author of many books, including There is No God and He is Always With You, Zen Wrapped in Karma Dipped in Chocolate, and Hardcore Zen, Brad is the creator of the “Hardcore Zen” blog and YouTube Channel and is also a punk rock bass player in the band, Zero Defex. He has published work in Buddhist magazines Shambala Sun, Buddha Dharma, and Tricycle as well as rock magazines such as Alternative Press, Maximum Rock and Roll, and Razorcake. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Brad Warner and I Discuss Hardcore Zen and … His book, “Letters to a Dead Friend About Zen” Absolute truth and relative truth The Buddhist precepts – there are no universal rules that apply to everything The universe is a living entity that is affected by our actions Why he wrote this book for his friend who died Iceberg metaphor – what can be seen is what we know about ourselves, but we also have unseen and unknowable parts of ourselves. His thoughts on Buddha being a genius The Buddha, the Dharma, and the Sangha A goal of not having a goal is also a goal Being in a goal-oriented society Seeing things as they are and realizing that we’re wrong The challenge of accepting our current reality as how it's supposed to be and not how we want it to be. Working with our desires for things to be a certain way Brad Warner Links: hardcorezen.com Twitter Facebook YouTube Indeed: Helps you find high impact hires, faster, without any long term contracts and you pay only for what you need. Get started with a free $75 credit to boost your job post and get in front of more quality candidates by going to www.indeed.com/wolf  Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf  SimpliSafe: Get comprehensive protection for your entire home with security cameras, alarms, sensors as well as fire, water, and carbon monoxide alerts. Visit simplisafe.com/wolf for free shipping and a 60-day money-back guarantee.  If you enjoyed this conversation with Brad Warner on Hardcore Zen, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Brad Warner )2016 Episode) Shinzen Young Shozan Jack Haubner See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

15 Sep 202053min

Kelly Wilson, Ph.D., is a Professor of psychology at the University at Mississippi. He is Past President of the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science, and winner of the University of Mississipi’s prestigious Elsie M. Hood Outstanding Teacher Award. Dr. Wilson is one of the co-developers of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and has written several books, including Things Might Go Terribly, Horribly Wrong: A Guide to Life Liberated from Anxiety. In this episode, Kelly Wilson and Eric discuss his approach to helping others to become liberated from their anxiety. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Kelly Wilson and I Discuss Being Liberated from Anxiety and… His book, Things Might Go Terribly, Horribly Wrong: A Guide to Life Liberated from Anxiety. Anxiety is not as a disease or that we’re broken His past view of vulnerability as being the enemy His theory that 1 out of 2 people has experienced some form of suffering or hardship in their life How labels can obscure a person Before talking about acceptance, it’s important to understand what matters. His approach to this therapy is about the direction towards what you love rather than just eliminating symptoms. Your suffering may be due to how it’s being carried, not that it’s being carried. Facing our difficulties is how we come to understand what courage and sacrifice look like Values and vulnerability as a starting place in therapy Identifying what would make the hardest thing worthwhile When we don’t know our values, identify where it hurts If the burden could be lifted, what would you allow? Reclaiming what we value by taking redemptive action The next right thing is acknowledging where you’ve been wrong Committed action is just the next action that brings you back to who you want to be It’s all about moving in the right direction, not the distance Kelly Wilson Links: onelifellc.com Twitter Facebook Peloton: Wondering if a Peloton bike is right for you? You can get a free 30 day home trial and find out. If you’re looking for a new way to get your cardio in, the Peloton bike is a great solution. Eric decided to buy one after his 30-day free trial. Visit onepeloton.com Indeed: Helps you find high impact hires, faster, without any long term contracts and you pay only for what you need. Get started with a free $75 credit to boost your job post and get in front of more quality candidates by going to www.indeed.com/wolf  Best Fiends: Engage your brain and play a game of puzzles with Best Fiends. Download for free on the Apple App Store or Google Play.   If you enjoyed this conversation with Kelly Wilson on Being Liberated from Anxiety, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Steven C. Hayes Russ Harris (Part 1) Russ Harris (Part 2) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Sep 202053min